I just dont know what to think. Me and my girl are on a 'break' right now, we've dating for 14 months and it was incredible. We definately love each other, but the last month has been hell and I finally said to her that we can't do this anymore. One day she would miss me, the next she wouldnt want to see me... so finally I said we need time apart.
She just graduated from high school, and I believe she just wants to let loose. Three months ago, a friend of mine told me to watch out for graduation, things will get wierd. So they have... alot of people are telling me that she is just confused and will probably come back.
Anyways I saw her last on sunday, we spent about an hour both in tears, emotions flying all over the place, saying goodbye, hugging, kissing, telling each other that we truly love each other... and so on. She wants me to call her in a few weeks and I gaurentee you she is expecting me to call her, yet she is the one who is having doubts.
So basically, what do you think of all this? what do you think I should do. Should I call her? what do you think her intentions are with everything?
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29-06-05, 09:49 AM #1
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what do you think?
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29-06-05, 10:09 AM #2
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Do anything that causes her to be calm and relaxed. Do nothing that doesn't do that. You'll probably have to exercise a huge degree of control over your own feelings, and it will probabnly be awfully difficult. People are drawn to where they feel comfortable and safe. Be comfortable and safe for her. If she turns you into a friend because you have, so be it. Suck it up and move on.
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---I agree with this post---
Originally Posted by whaywardj
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings
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29-06-05, 11:32 AM #4
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you are both right.. as for calling her.. i guess its best to see how i feel three weeks from now... anyways...
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30-06-05, 11:11 AM #5
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You need to move on. This isn't the girl you are going to spend the rest of your life with, no matter how "in love" you think you are right now. I would give her 3 weeks and then some. Don't call on the exact 3rd week time frame. Wait about 4 weeks at least. Let her know you aren't obsessive and have moved on.
The last thing any chick wants is some dude obsessing over them and bothering them. Let her know you aren't some love sick puppy and are getting over her.---------------------------------------------------------
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