help!

[confused2001]

going through a really rough patch with my g/f, she constantly tells me that i dont listen to her and therefore dont know anything about her and that she knows everything about me. I dont think this is true but its very hard to alter this perception in her mind. I am now in the position if i ask where i stand or anything like that, that i will be reinforcing this. I really do want to listen to what she has to say and care about her a great deal but she never seems to remember any of the conversations that we have had about her and throws the ones about me back in my face,

She told me she wanted to see less of me but then only 24 hours later was asking what i was doing, for the first time i did not invite her along as i thought this is what she wanted - it appears i was wrong as this only made her angrier with me.

I really dont want to break it off with her but if things carry on as they are i dont think there will be any option. Would really appreciate any advice!

[Junket]

She's a manipulabitch.

Avoid her for a week. Don't answer her calls or nothin'.

Then rub it in her face when she comes crawlin' to you.

And if she doesn't come crawling, you might as well break it off.

[Cybog]

Age? For the both of you?

She sounds like either a 16 year old teenager or a 22 year old brat. Either way, you don't have to put up with her antics. Grow some sack and tell her she needs to back the hell up and stop being so needy/whiny.

This isn't your wife you are dealing with here. And she isn't ever going to be. Why willingly put yourself through this ignorance?