Hi. In need of a advice real quick. I am 18 years old. My Ex who hurt me real bad just text me and said she loves me.
I was dating this girl, which i will call Amie, in 2016. Our relationship was great we loved each other and held hands when we walked anywhere. I had this best FEMALE FRIEND, who i'll call Isabelle. Everytime i hung out with Isabelle, Amie would get jealous and give me a silent treatment or cry. When i asked her whats wrong she'd reply "you hurt me, you love that Isabelle of yours more than you lovd me, etc"
I loved Amie so much that i decided to push away my best friend in order to keep her happy. Our relationship continued.
When the year came to an end, Amie went to visit her family in the Eastern Cape. Amies personality completely changed she became that reckless chick. She started smoking and post inappropriate pics of her body on her social media platforms knowing that i would try to talk her out of what she was doing(i was only concerned). A day later she started posting pics of this blond haired guy on all her social media platforms with the captions "my boo, the one and only i love, the person who doesn't judge me" This was a way of breaking up with me.
I tried to move on. Taking her out of my mind was harder than being in the front line of WW II. I distracted my mind with IT related stuff and gadgets (that's how i came across LOVEFORUM). Time and distance made the magic, i completely forgot about her. I even met this wonderful and beautiful girl, which i will call Teresa. We gave been dating for 4 months now but it feels like it's been 4years.
Its been almost two years since Amie and i had No Contact.
Last month, September 2018, Amie sent me a text on FaceBook "hi, you look nice, i kinda miss you" i replied after a week "thanks, miss you too". And now this months, October, just yesterday, Amie sent me a text "i need to tell you something..." i replied "am all hears" and she said "i am sorry about what i did, i know you might think i didnt love you, but i did and i still do" i replied "i have to admit, i still love you too"
She proposed that we should date again because it didn't work out at first and i accepted her proposal.
i can't say NO that's why i accepted her proposal. I dont know who i love more.
Should i just have sex with Amie and disappear or should i comsider a relationship????
This happened recenlty so a quick reply is appreciated.
I'd appreciate it if Smackie replies as well.
Excuse my grammar