I have been seeing this man for 4 months. Usually about once or twice a week. We had scheduled dinner plans earlier in the week for Friday at 7. I text him to confirm them on Thursday and arranged a sitter for my young son. Friday morning he text me asking where we should go etc. Told me he'd be out of work around 7 and would be in touch.
At 7:20, sitter already at my house, I get a phone call from him that "his mom called and his uncle surprised the family and she's guilting him into coming to dinner". I was literally sitting in my jacket waiting for him to arrive and had a babysitter sitting in my house. I was not pleased, and said if he wants to reschedule he can let me know. He said he thought I would be more understanding, I explained he was being very inconsiderate of my time. He said we would do lunch Sunday. I was clearly upset but not being nasty at all.
I did not hear from him Saturday or today, the day he said we would do lunch.
He's got me feeling like I somehow did something wrong? I understand family is important, but he literally blew me off like it was nothing.
Advice?