I've not gone to another website either, to echo others. Just was away and then sick.
I recall you saying things about this? sister before, I don't think she knows how to have a successful relationship because she is probably way too self-involved invested and is always looking over the current guys shoulder for the next one. It wasn't right she made you feel like you did or said anything wrong in that situation. Does the almost? BIL ever privately talk to you? Are you close to him at all?
“The world would be a nicer place if everyone had the ability to love as unconditionally as a dog.”