What the hell?

[Carlos The Elf]

Man, I cannot get her to orgasm. We're not having sex, but I'll eat her out, or I'll finger her, and I can see that she's almost about to hit it, because she's clenching her muscles tight, and she's breathing hard. But, then it'll start tickling her. I mean, she will stop feeling pleasure, and it'll just tickle her. What the hell?

My friend said that you have to have her give herself an orgasm before you can give her one. Otherwise it'll be almost impossible. She's never had an orgasm before, so maybe that's it, but she really wants me to give her her first orgasm. But, she just always get ticklish. WHAT CAN I DO?! Please, help me. Please Please. Thanks a lot.

[jane]

your right on both counts! That "tickling" feeling .. is the beginning of aan orgasum.. she just needs to let it go.
It may be a good idea for her to try and give herself one too. If you want to .. tell her the beginning of an orgasum may feel like she really has to pee... its almost the same concept .. KEEP TRYING and Good luck!

[Carlos The Elf]

Bad news again. She can't stand it tickling. It's too much for her, and I can't go on. What do I do? Do I have to wait until we have sex, and maybe she'll be used to the feeling, or what? Damnit, this sucks. Thanks all.

[jane]

hhhm.mmmm... that is interesting.
She obviously feels something right so its not from lack of trying.

My next question is this... her age. It is a PROVEN fact that some women do not experience orgasums before the age of 25. Women are in their prime between the ages of 25 and 35 so.. I wouldn't be too surprized. THAT WOULD NOT BE YOUR FAULT!
so
my only sugestion is this.. when it starts to "tickle" lay off and do something else fingering ... etc... then try again.

Don't get discouraged! Her day will cum... (no pun inteaded! )

[takethesewords]

if women don't experience orgasms before 25, then i guess my girl is faking it 2-5 times each time we get a chance to mess around...and she's lying when she says i'm a god? haha!

she's 17 btw.

[jane]

Originally posted by jane
[B]hhhm.mmmm... It is a PROVEN fact that [B]some women do not experience orgasums before the age of 25.

next time read more carefully.. I said SOME not all.

I doubt your girl is faking .. but hey ya never know.

[jane]

why did it post twice?? hhmmmm...

[takethesewords]

my apologies. no wonder i couldn't believe what you said...because you didn't say it!

anyways, i guess ill try to be helpful... try this...stick your middle finger in, palm facing up..then curl your finger back towards you til you feel a spongy, rough spot..hard to describe, but thats the gspot. keep strokin that bad boy and shell scream so loud ill hear it here in kentucky. good luck.

[jane]

hhmm... I think I may have posted the very same description in another post .....