men who don't cum orally

[updraft]

Hi group~

Just was wondering how many of you men on this board have difficulty cumming orally. My bf of 1.5 years will not cum this way. He says he has *never* cum orally.

He comes close to it but has never actually blown his load for me. I have come to the conclusion I will never get him off this way so I have stopped wasting my time trying. Believe me, after half an hour of vigorous blowing my mouth and jaw feel like their coming apart.

I can tell when I blow him it feels good for him and I listen to him moaning and stuff but I feel let down when he doesn't actually do it. I don't put pressure on him at all... I always tell him to enjoy the bj and if he cums thats a bonus!

So my question is how many of you men have had or still have this disfunction and if so what are you (and your partner) doing about it?

-Updraft

[shh!]

Cum orally? I thought semen always came out of the penis...

Anyway, I don't know that this could/should be labelled a "disfunction". In my experience, men frequently take longer to ejaculate through oral sex than through intercourse. (I think that might be part of the reason they like it - it lasts longer that way.)

[misombra]

i hope hayward is okay. has anyone seen him today? i bet his power is out.

[shh!]

Why would his power be out?

[misombra]

because a big hurricane just hit alabama last night.

[shh!]

Really? I have been on a news hiatus and didn't know! I thought I heard about one heading in to Florida today or tonight...

[misombra]

yeah it already hit. alabama got it pretty bad. there are mass power outages going on down there.

[shh!]

That's too bad. I guess I should turn on the news tonight. (sigh)
What sort of natural disaters are there where you live (NM, right?)...

[misombra]

yeah. we're pretty much free of them. forest fires are the big thing here. it's so dry here and we have a lot of pine trees that die and make kindling all over the ground. and then some idiot always decides to light fire works in a forest. this year people have been more careful i think so we've seen less fires. but still, any little thing will send our poor little state blazing. we have a good combination of heat, fuel, and wind.

you guys get earthquakes though that is nuts. that would scare me. i have an aunt that lives in san gabriel and she's had all kinds of shit in her house broken by earthquakes.

[shh!]

Yup. Big earthquakes, floods and fires, all centered within a two mile radius of my house. We Californians are tough!

[misombra]

wow. yeah san bernadino caught fire last year i remember that. that fire was going on at the same time as that one fire north of flagstaff. our sunsets were blood red.

[Junket]

We get thunderstorms.

[misombra]

oooooh i loooooove thunderstorms. texas has awesome lightning and thunder storms.

[shh!]

Arizona (around Tucson) and Wyoming do, too...

[misombra]

they just skip right over us. although we get some cool storms but nothing like what i've seen in texas.