I must be a dumbass

[chelsee]

I must be a dumbass because I just go along with all my bf shit. We broke up a few months ago, and moved into seperate houses. after the breakup he said he made a mistake and wanted to get back together. Later he tells me in order to get back together I need to do a few things first. wtf

[Tone]

Hey.


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[misombra]

a few things like what?

[chelsee]

hey misombra
i have done a few things that has disapointed him and one thing is kinda bad. but he has done the same. so i kinda feel like i'm changing for the better but he doesn't think he has to do anything.

[Tone]

Give

us

details

if

you

want

some

damn

help.

[misombra]

i don't get it. what is he asking you to change?

[chelsee]

Ok, i did some shit that got me in trouble, i'm on probation. he broke up with me because of what i did. ( it's not really that bad) he said that i have to get my life back on track before we get back together and that i need to get off probation. i'm doing that but he doesn't give me any credit for it. i feel that if he really cared about me he would forgive me and help me thru this. instead of turning his back on me.

[shh!]

Probation for what?

[whaywardj]

Ok, i did some shit that got me in trouble, i'm on probation. he broke up with me because of what i did. ( it's not really that bad)

Evidently, that's highly relative. "Not that bad" doesn't usually lead to probation. Common. 'Fess up.

[chelsee]

I got a DWI, and it was because we both got into a big agrument at my birthday party and we were at a hotel room and started fighting, I got pissed off and got into my car and drove off.

[shh!]

Boy, that is a really crappy way to spend your birthday.

[misombra]

do you drink a lot? are you an angry drunk? or was that an isolated incident?

[chelsee]

yes it was. and he ended up screaming and yelling at me in front of a bunch of people.. he got into a big bar brawl and i got in the middle and ended up with a broken arm. so i feel that some us this is his fault and i took the wrap for everything. now i'm the one that got into trouble. i just needed to get the hell out of there.

[chelsee]

it was just this one incident. it was my birthday. i was having a party at a freind's place. some people showed up that he didn't like. and he got pissed off at me about it. and things just went from there.

[misombra]

so what is asking you change?