Shall I go or stay?

[artyemi]

Oh
I said "MAYBE"...

You said "maybe" but you said you don't want.. etc.. etc..

[ritehereritenow]

thanks! I love living in Boston. Especially now - the summer time!

We didn't talk about break-up at all last night. It sounded more like we want to get closer. But when he said feelings change, it just hurts so much. And I don't know what the hell he means (he is not clear, either). Yes, it's the second time. Last time when he said that, we stopped dating. And this time he said it could be either good way or bad way but he just didn't know it yet.

Anyway, he is coming to see me after work. I will see how things go and make a decision soon. Thanks for all your help, artyemi. I also appreciate the inputs from everybody here. I will be back later.

I hadn't realize you're from Boston. That's cool.

Remember that he is the way he is. He will always continue to think too much.

If this is the second time and you're already tired of it, then.....

[ritehereritenow]

I know, my best friend said the same thing. I had two serious relationships before and am good at giving other people suggestions in relationship. But this time, I have no clue...

This thread leaves me speechless.

[artyemi]

thanks! I love living in Boston. Especially now - the summer time!

We didn't talk about break-up at all last night. It sounded more like we want to get closer. But when he said feelings change, it just hurts so much. And I don't know what the hell he means (he is not clear, either). Yes, it's the second time. Last time when he said that, we stopped dating. And this time he said it could be either good way or bad way but he just didn't know it yet.

Anyway, he is coming to see me after work. I will see how things go and make a decision soon. Thanks for all your help, artyemi. I also appreciate the inputs from everybody here. I will be back later.

I love living in Boston too. Sometimes, I think about moving to other places, but usually, after visiting there, my heart aches to come back. I get so homesick.

Honestly, if he doesn't know, he just doesn't know. People don't always know what they're feeling. But do you really want to stay with someone who doesn't know how they feel about you?

What's the purpose of a relationship? Ok, so you say you're with him because you love him. But man, I wonder if it's worth it to keep staying around when someone doesn't feel the same way about you.

[ritehereritenow]

Just noticed you are from Boston too! Hug! I live and work in Harvard Sq. Enjoy living in this area so much!

I just wish he could have given me a clear answer. I am not afraid of leaving. It's not worth it to stay with someone who doesn't love you. If he doesn't or ever treated me like crap, we wouldn't be together. We haven't said Lwords to each other, though.

Seems everybody thinks I should just leave. I still want to try it for one more month. If it didn't work out, i could just go w/o any regrets. We had dinner together last night. Everything seems fine on the surface, he hold my hand and we kissed. Hope things will be better.

I love living in Boston too. Sometimes, I think about moving to other places, but usually, after visiting there, my heart aches to come back. I get so homesick.

Honestly, if he doesn't know, he just doesn't know. People don't always know what they're feeling. But do you really want to stay with someone who doesn't know how they feel about you?

What's the purpose of a relationship? Ok, so you say you're with him because you love him. But man, I wonder if it's worth it to keep staying around when someone doesn't feel the same way about you.

[exclamationpoii]

My boyfriend has acted similarly (confusions, mood changes involving the relationship, etc.) but we found out he has some emotional issues. So maybe you could suggest.. some.. help?

[ritehereritenow]

Thanks! But I think he is fine, b/c he's never got very emotional w/ anything (Me, his parents, work or other stuff), except after drinking...Plus, if I suggested some help, he would be really mad.

How did you guys find out his emotional issues? ?_?

My boyfriend has acted similarly (confusions, mood changes involving the relationship, etc.) but we found out he has some emotional issues. So maybe you could suggest.. some.. help?