Kill 4 Words Threads

[nomas]

Because I feel technical, illusionals statement in which nomas responded to was general in nature. Thus because it had no direct direction, it is left for open conversation. Relation being...anyone can branch out, grab that statement, and comment as such for whatever reason (in their respective opinion of course). Nomas is correct in saying what he said, more so an observation on his part in relation to illusionals statement. We aren't "overall" that welcoming lol, but most of it is sarcastic, but the newer people don't know that because obviously, haven't been around. I remember when I joined forever ago, some helped..and others *cough*illusional*cough*(haha) did their parts. Eventually I figured it out, all in fun honestly. When things become serious though, most do their best to help others.

I'm tired, and bored rofl. I don't wanna go to work today, but it's payday..woo!!

I agree with this post.

[misombra]

i went away for a weekend and came back and the 4 word thread was so lost to me. you have to keep up with it. i haven't been in there for a while. is it getting weird or what the hell?

and nomas, you know i still love you baby! even though you do this a lot... "oh stop."

[Tone]

But I'll assume for the moment that you and Tony are trying to be funny.

No - I really believe you're full of yourself.

[Kiechi]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh the drama!

[shh!]

Damn, whaywardj! Look what you started! I'm staying off this thread. It's too scary for me!

[nomas]

No - I really believe you're full of yourself.

I think you're being funny again.

This time it's a little funnier:

*ha, ha, ha*

But seriously, if you believe that, can you tell me why I come off to you as such? I am always looking to improve myself and if there's something you can clue me into I'll consider working toward changing it, if I deem it valid.

[nomas]

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh the drama!

Nah, Quiche, I'm not into the drama..just the discussion with valid reasoning and logic.

[Tone]

Listen to the way you talk.

You're a dick. Being a machine (or pretending to be) and trying too hard to use "big words" all the time just annoys me, sorry. You love to build yourself up and always seem, to me, to be looking down on anyone not in your little "e-clique".

[nomas]

Listen to the way you talk.

You're a dick. Being a machine (or pretending to be) and trying too hard to use "big words" all the time just annoys me, sorry. You love to build yourself up and always seem, to me, to be looking down on anyone not in your little "e-clique".

True, I do always try to find the best words to better convey what I'm trying to get across..but I think that hardly makes someone a dick...I'm just going for effective communication, as best I can, anyway. If this annoys you, that's okay, you don't have to apologize...nobody could be liked by all. I won't be changing the words I choose in an effort to be more agreeable to you. It's not a good enough reason. Something I would work on, however, is if I appear to be "looking down" on people. Some of my comments are, as Nova put it, sarcastic/ fun-honesty, and maybe you're reading this as if I was trying to be condescending. That's easy to assume as the tone in which you write things isn't conveyed on a post, but I assure you I don't think I'm any better than the next poster.

Also, who is my little "e-clique" that you speak of? Or if it's easier, who's out of my "e-clique" that I'm looking down upon?

[Tone]

Yeah I don't think you're that bad a guy. We just butt heads.

[whaywardj]

Tone -- while your flap with nomas is rather amusing to watch, I can't help but notice the even-handed posts I'm accustomed to seeing under your name are becoming less and less in evidence. What, exactly, is it are you taking out on nomas?

[Tone]

Good question. I'm not sure why I'm more and more angry and seem to have less and less patience these days. I'm getting on my own nerves, believe it or not.

[whaywardj]

LOL! I know the feeling!

[whaywardj]

I don't know if it might be useful for you or not, but my experience tells me that behind EVERY anger, there's ALWAYS either a hurt or a frustration of some kind. Might poke around in that direction if you care to surface a possible cause.

[artyemi]

This forum is RUDE and unforgiving..especially to newbies...is why only the stong survive. But I could see why a lot don't make it..especially when they're new here and a lot of the established members gang up on the newbie and s/he's intimidated and just leaves.

This forum could use more kindness/gentleness.

Or we can leave it as is and not get all hurt when people talk shit about each other..

Yeah, I prefer that...

We are mean and rude, I think, especially to newbies. Completely get the whole only the strong survive stuff.

I guess, like Innova, I see this in the general term.