Moving day is coming

[moonlight]

I found an apartment. I move week after next. It's amazing how fast things move sometimes. At least I'm over the crying for now. And I find I'm really looking forward to having my own space.

The "friends" myth is so tempting. He says he always wants me in his life and hopes we can be friends. What a line. I wonder what life will be like 6 months from now. I just can't imagine dating...what a nightmare. I hate dating.

[Junket]

Look on the bright side.

With your own apartment you can walk around the house naked.

[blue]

thats definatley a plus there are alot of +

[misombra]

what was your situation again? your boyfriend broke up with you and started dating a younger, asian woman?

that is your right?

if so, great! don't be friends with him he's a loser.

[Asip4u]

I found an apartment. I move week after next. It's amazing how fast things move sometimes. At least I'm over the crying for now. And I find I'm really looking forward to having my own space.

The "friends" myth is so tempting. He says he always wants me in his life and hopes we can be friends. What a line. I wonder what life will be like 6 months from now. I just can't imagine dating...what a nightmare. I hate dating.

Why do you hate dating? It's fun...You get to meet many people and see different qualities of each. When you click with one more then others it has potential for something more.

[Tone]

Forget the friends bid. You're hurting from it so it will only be more pain for you if you guys try the "friends" thing. In response to him saying he can't imagine life without you, tell him his punk ass should have thought about that before runnin off with that girl in town. Then call him a scumbag jerkoff.

[moonlight]

yeah, dumped for a younger, Asian woman. That's me.

And the friends thing scares me. It's because I know in my gut the day will come when he will contact me wanting some of the "old times" in some form. Probably after he has a fight or two with the new girl. I hope my heart is as strong as my head when that day comes.

I just haven't dated much in my life. I've been in long term relationships since I was 19. It's going to be weird, but my friends all tell me it's about time. Nothing like being an old dog learning a new trick.

[mini696]

Yeah forget the friends thing.

Dating is great... The highs and lows are so much fun. Look at it as an adventure, and dont stress over the jerks. When the "right one" comes along you'll know. Don't allow yourself to fall into submission again, allowing a man to have such an effect on you is not healthy. Date, enjoy, and tell the pricks to f-off the FIRST time you think of it.


Mick
As a side note:
I helped my GF move on the weekend. Would you believe she had 5 ute loads of RUBBISH!! Granted there were 6 other people in the house and none of them helped at all. I didn't even live there and cleaned the damn place.

Things we do for love.

[Tone]

haha mick, the things we do, indeed.

[Jsnowman]

I hear ya Moonlight. I hate the thought of having to have to date again. It was so easy in the past. All my GF's have asked me out...I didn't do anything. But in hindsight, perhaps if I would've been more of an active participant, who knows where I might be today.

I'm getting to the point where I'm becoming curious about seeing what it is like to date another woman after being with the same one for five years. My pain has subsided,for the most part, and when I'm ready I'll have to become more of active participant. Until that day though, I'll continue to do what is best for me and move forward.....Just like you will for yourself and your child.

Keep us posted.

[moonlight]

Well, we talked a little this morning. He said she is going to move in as soon as I move out. Good thing about that is he's giving me whatever I want, including the big, new bed.

He said he's never felt this way about anyone, and she says the same. He's jealous of her and he's never been jealous of anyone. He says they're going to probably get married and have kids. It was quite a revelation. But good, because I know now that he'll never call missing the "old times" and we'll never be good friends again. It's a clean break and I can stop wondering about the future. It'll go on without him.

I hope they're happy together, truely I do. It's for the best.

[lilwing89]

nobody said you have to date.

its your fault.

atleast you didnt get dumped for a midget