Inescapable truth

[wally]

After 28 years on this Earth, multiple long-term relationships, and a marriage that looks as if it may be going down the tubes, I believe that I have reached an inescapable, undeniable conclusion about the opposite sex.

Women simply don't know how to be happy.

There it is.

A woman can have everything her heart desires: all the money in the world, a huge mansion in Hawaii, and a man that cherishes her and treats her like a queen, and there will still be something missing from her life. There will ALWAYS be something missing - something just out of reach that stands between her and true happiness.

Literally every woman I've ever known has been on, is currently on, or has thought about going on some sort of medication - anti-depressant, mood stabilizer, etc. - to make up for the fact that they are simply not capable of being happy. They don't know how!

If my marriage falls apart then I swear I'm done with this. I'm through. Never again will I allow a woman to sucker me into thinking that I can actually make her happy.

Sorry if I offended any of the ladies out there. Thanks for letting me vent.

Wally

[Only-virgins]

Thats why im up for making woman simple sex slaves that just breed. They are unhappy either way so whocares right?

[lilwing89]

does this mean my brother is a girl too?

he always finds somethign wrong wtih everything...

[PIZZ]

Women are just picker then guys are. They have this image of a knight in shining armor, the perfect man... a guy that can read her mind.... that's a fantasy alot of girls hold on to. And when a guy doent meet those expectations, they go in search of that fantasy again.

[Girlie19]

Heh I've never thought about taking any kind of medication, and I feel quite happy at this moment. Does that make me a man??

[indigosoul]

After 28 years on this Earth, multiple long-term relationships, and a marriage that looks as if it may be going down the tubes, I believe that I have reached an inescapable, undeniable conclusion about the opposite sex.

Women simply don't know how to be happy.

la..la,la,la...laaaaaaa

Not true of all women. Tell your woman (this or next) that NOBODY is responsible for anyone else's happiness except themself. Its all state of mind!!

[indigosoul]

Thats why im up for making woman simple sex slaves that just breed.

Ooooooo. so done the breeding part... where can I sign up for the rest??!!

[blue]

you shouldnt have to make her happy she should be able to find her own happiness within herself. If you have to make someone happy there will definatley be a failed attempt and there will be dissapointment.
Relationships have ups and downs nothing in this world is perfect and nothing in realtionships are perfect not even in the best of best. Communication is key.

[whaywardj]

Ooooooo. so done the breeding part... where can I sign up for the rest??!!

I'll PM you my address and phone number. Where do you want me to send your airline tickets?

[indigosoul]

I'll PM you my address and phone number. Where do you want me to send your airline tickets?

LOL, hayward!! First class, all the way, tho. And thats both ME and the tickets, alright?

[MrDrum]

Maybe the problem is that you tend to choose loser women who are already unhappy people. You can't make them happy on your own. You need to find a woman that is already happy, that is in love with you.

I think the problem, is you.

[Borealis]

Maybe the problem is that you tend to choose loser women who are already unhappy people. You can't make them happy on your own. You need to find a woman that is already happy, that is in love with you.

I think the problem, is you.

Agreed. As with any and all situations, it always resorts back to one definite article, and that is yourself. You hold the keys to your destiny and what corresponds--nobody else.

[The Wise]

A woman can have everything her heart desires: all the money in the world, a huge mansion in Hawaii, and a man that cherishes her and treats her like a queen, and there will still be something missing from her life.

First, I'll assume you're being ironic in this specific sentence. If you've been busy with trying to provide your women with a huge mansion in Hawaii, that may be the reason why they weren't happy I mean, of course money can buy little satisfactions, but it hardly makes someone happy. I really think that being too focused on "stuff" is a good way for being unhappy.

I cannot know what would make your wife happier. I can say that there are lots of possibilities why she may be depressed.

Maybe she had lived her youth dreaming too much of her future, or thinking too much about a "perfect life" that turned out not to be the real future coming?

Maybe she doesn't feel fully realized or she would like to have a different job?

Maybe she's finding it hard to build the kind of family she really wants?

Maybe she's just feeling frightened for watching youth slip away, and her lifestyle with it?

You might have just met a series of women who had different reasons to be sad, don't automatically assume that it happens to all women because that's far from truth. I do feel like women are more prone to depression, and while this might even have a physiological explanation (which I cannot give), I rather think it's because the world cultures always tend to give women less opportunities than men, and often make women more dependent of men.

Perhaps you could ask yourself this. Are you always making women too much dependent on you? Did your girlfriends have their own job, money, friends, time alone etc. to do what they wanted or do you think you may kind-of "monopolize" their life too much? Just wandering...

Literally every woman I've ever known has been on, is currently on, or has thought about going on some sort of medication - anti-depressant, mood stabilizer, etc. - to make up for the fact that they are simply not capable of being happy.

Incidentally, it is sad to hear that in the US it is so common to "cure" depression by chemicals as the first resort. It doesn't sound a good idea to me on a long-term perspective.