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**afr55** · 23-07-05, 10:47 AM

Hi u guys i know a friend thats a girl, i think she wants to be a better friend,but i am attracted to her, she asked for my #, and today i went to her house(her friends were there), i was only guy (age15) i tried to talk more but i didnt know what, especially since her other friends were there, i think i will become a closer friend with her and tell her that i like her later...any ways to increase a conversation/start/keep talking?

**1reason1love** · 23-07-05, 10:55 AM

Originally Posted by afr55

Hi u guys i know a friend thats a girl, i think she wants to be a better friend,but i am attracted to her, she asked for my #, and today i went to her house(her friends were there), i was only guy (age15) i tried to talk more but i didnt know what, especially since her other friends were there, i think i will become a closer friend with her and tell her that i like her later...any ways to increase a conversation/start/keep talking?

just be a friend for a while and get to kno her and the off of that u can go on. U may like her now but later on she might not turnout the way u wanted to. Another plus to just being friends right now w/ this girl is that it will give her a chance to get to kno u so that u can have a stronger firm base if u r looking for a long term relationship...but then again ur only 15...how old is she? its important to get to kno each other really well before things get deep. But i would spend a lil more time with her, talk to her, call her up ESPECIALLY if she asked u for ur #, u mustve gotten hers right? so yea just call her up, c whats up and plan for more time together. Maybe go c a movie...if ur to scared to go by urself w/ her u can always say me and a bunch of friends are going together u wanna come? be real casual and shit will go right.

**eloise** · 23-07-05, 02:48 PM

she sounds keen to me. find out what she's interested in so you have something to talk about. good luck!!

**wwefan300** · 23-07-05, 07:44 PM

Oh man im good at this stuff auctully. On conversasions always ask stuff like for example.

guy: have you seen a movie lately
Girl: yes
Guy: which movie was it? was it scary or just an action flick?
Girl: well i saw the new batman movie blah blah blah
Guy: What did you think of it?
Girl: well it was alright...
Guy: Why do you say that?
Girl: well ive never really seen a batman movie before
Guy: me neither is there an actor that you like?

Yeah just keep asking questions and expand from there IT's ALWAYS IMPORTANT to do that. Like in my little example above that will help you on what to do with conversasions....

lilwing89 · 25-07-05, 11:22 AM

tell her you like her and you wanna know if she wants to go for a walk or something! if she says "no", move on.

**afr55** · 26-07-05, 07:18 AM

Originally Posted by lilwing89

tell her you like her and you wanna know if she wants to go for a walk or something! if she says "no", move on.

no thanks thats dumb

**Cybog** · 26-07-05, 07:49 AM

haha actually that's about the best piece of advice that has been posted so far.

just be a friend for a while and get to kno her and the off of that u can go on. U may like her now but later on she might not turnout the way u wanted to. Another plus to just being friends right now w/ this girl is that it will give her a chance to get to kno u so that u can have a stronger firm base if u r looking for a long term relationship.

This is garbage, because guys and girls, ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE can't just "be friends". One of the 2 of you is going to develop feelings for the other....OH WAIT! You already want more out of this than being "just friends".

You damn kids are so godamn scared of each other and being "rejected" you never think of doing exactly what you should do: Walk up and spill it out.

God, If I could go back and re-live all of the ****ed up relationship mistakes I had made in my life, THIS ONE would have been #1 - Simply telling girls flat out what I wanted to do.

Stop beating around the bush, sending messages with "Check YES or NO" boxes on them, and straight out ask her if she would like to "go out" with you sometime.

All this crap you are doing is so that you CAN BE THERE ALREADY, so why wait? If she rejects you, it was never meant to be in the first place.

**clynn** · 26-07-05, 08:52 AM

ASk her out on a date!

Its summer and ice cream is a great date!

**okibo** · 26-07-05, 09:05 AM

Thats good Cybog! If she says es thats great! But if she says no, move on quickly, if you let it get to you you will end up shooting yourself in the foot! Good Luck

**afr55** · 27-07-05, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by Cybog

haha actually that's about the best piece of advice that has been posted so far.

This is garbage, because guys and girls, ESPECIALLY AT THAT AGE can't just "be friends". One of the 2 of you is going to develop feelings for the other....OH WAIT! You already want more out of this than being "just friends".

You damn kids are so godamn scared of each other and being "rejected" you never think of doing exactly what you should do: Walk up and spill it out.

God, If I could go back and re-live all of the ****ed up relationship mistakes I had made in my life, THIS ONE would have been #1 - Simply telling girls flat out what I wanted to do.

Stop beating around the bush, sending messages with "Check YES or NO" boxes on them, and straight out ask her if she would like to "go out" with you sometime.

All this crap you are doing is so that you CAN BE THERE ALREADY, so why wait? If she rejects you, it was never meant to be in the first place.

oh lolz i didnt see the part about the walk........i already did ask her about a walk thingy never really asked i was like we SHOULD go on a walk to that place

no cause u see if i wait and get stronger friendship then other stuff might be stronger too and if i ask her out later (junior/senior) yr it will be more serious and likely to last longer

**clynn** · 27-07-05, 11:11 AM

Originally Posted by afr55

no cause u see if i wait and get stronger friendship then other stuff might be stronger too and if i ask her out later (junior/senior) yr it will be more serious and likely to last longer

That's true.

Or she might have another boyfriend by then.

**Cybog** · 27-07-05, 01:02 PM

no cause u see if i wait and get stronger friendship then other stuff might be stronger too and if i ask her out later (junior/senior) yr it will be more serious and likely to last longer

haha...sure thing kid. You have it all figured out. Call me in a couple years when she won't date you because she doesn't "think of you that way".

**afr55** · 28-07-05, 05:54 AM

Originally Posted by Cybog

haha...sure thing kid. You have it all figured out. Call me in a couple years when she won't date you because she doesn't "think of you that way".

what if she does

Tone · 28-07-05, 05:55 AM

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