One Word .... JEALOUSY

[Asip4u]

It's jealousy. But if you don't want to be jealous, stop dating attractive girls.

"if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
never make a pretty woman your wife
so from my personal point of view
get an ugly girl to marry you..."

first time we disagree, shh!..well, sort of ...I have a female friend that I care about and i wouldn't mind if I knew that a nice guy was checking her out. I noticed few days ago that this player type was looking at her ass and it pissed me off. Why? Mostly because I know that this guy is totally bad news. Now some people would say that I'm being jealous because i want to be with her but I actually made it very clear that I don't feel anything for her so we're just friends. So my question is...If i don't mind that certain guys are checking her out am I being protective or jealous?

[shh!]

Well, since you are not her boyfriend, and I assume there is some level of concern that she MIGHT actually fall for him, so I'd say you are being protective. Not the same thing, in my book... I was referring to just random guys checking out random girls.

[XPixiedustX]

well roxy i have to disagree...lets suppose you really are dating mr perfect...then of course other chicks will hit on him, that doesn't mean that he'll respond now does it? So why be jealous? Cuz if all it takes is a bunch of drunk girls throwing themselves over him for him to dump you....then he IS the "average jerk".

"And when you mature further on, you will start to note things such as, men are attracted to sex, women are attracted to security, and everyone gets jealous."

...as far as that goes you really need to stop generalizing....women are attracted to sex just as much as they are to security....and men aren't just attracted to sex. Infact that is a statement that is more true in high school boys than grown mature men.

[shh!]

I think Roxy is only around 20, so her perspective makes more sense in that context...

[RoxyFoxy]

I think Roxy is only around 20, so her perspective makes more sense in that context...

That's amazing, you can read my birthday right off of loveforum.

Oh, by the way Pixie, men enjoy sex far more than women. It's just a fact.

[XPixiedustX]

Oh, by the way Pixie, men enjoy sex far more than women. It's just a fact.

well look at it this way...both men and women orgasm, so unless your saying that a guy feels more pleasure when he orgasms...that's just not true. What might be truer is that generally it takes more work to make a woman orgasm, and quite a few guys don't care enuf to be patient.

[shh!]

quite a few guys don't care enuf to be patient.

Especially when they are around 20...

[RoxyFoxy]

Especially when they are around 20...

First of all, by boyfriend is 26.

Second, i've been with alot of men, and they're mostly the same, only that this guy comes from a really good family.

And men do enjoy it more. Seriously, that's all they think about. I'm not saying that I don't think about sex, but not all the time, it doesn't run my life.

[shh!]

Being with "a lot of men" is no substitute for being with one REALLY good one who loves you enough to ensure you are enjoying sex to the same extent he is. And trust me, it IS possible for women to enjoy it every bit as much as men, and it need not "run your life". It certainly does enhance it, though. Maybe you just haven't met the right man yet.

And I really DO believe you are LovelyLady.

[shh!]

Ahh - I am beginning to see the problem now, Roxy! I just realized you are the girl who is dissatisfied with your sex life. Now your posts make perfect sense.

[url]http://www.loveforum.net/showthread.php?t=8773&page=1&pp=15[/url]

Anyway, good luck with that...

[XPixiedustX]

thank you shhh! I don't have a problem with you roxy but u really need to stop putting men down. If you really aren't enjoying sex even after being with a lot of guys, then either you aren't communicating to your boyfriend what you want in terms of sex...or your just not finding the right guys. Most guys love it when their girlfriends enjoy sex...it's kinda like an ego booster...

[Late_vamp]

well it IS an ego booster. Makes ya feel like ya did a good job ( for me anyways.) its a compliment

[RoxyFoxy]

your just not finding the right guys

Oh no, this is the right guy. Don't get me wrong Pixie, i'm not saying that because of the way he is in bed, but "the right guy" has a different meaning to girls here. I love sex Shh, but this guy doesn't seem to get the point. And I don't want to say or do anything to lose him. After all, i've done alot to keep him so far. I just wish that he would go down there without me having to spell it out for him.

[Aaron Blanc]

I don't know what you mean by that, but it's girls like you that give women a bad name. I think all the ladies here would agree.

[RoxyFoxy]

It's men like you that give homosexuals a bad name.