I Want to leave my husband, we have a baby

[Apache]

It's the Black Widow theory...
I'm glad I'm not a spider....lol

[shh!]

How come my search thread says Apache made a post at 3:26 pm, but it isn't showing up? It's a mystery....

[Tone]

I see his post ;o

For you shh:

It's the Black Widow theory...
I'm glad I'm not a spider....lol

[clynn]

new mum, where are you????

It must be very hard to be so young with such a difficult situation and a baby.

Takes 2 to raise a baby. And all the extended family.
Reach out right now to your family. Do you have a mother? Grandmother? Aunt? Older cousin or aunt? Tell them what is going on with you.

No man that you ever meet in the future will ever treat your child with the same love and respect as your husband, provided he is a good man as you have stated. It simply isn't possible. This will sound obvious, but so true - your child is 1/2 you and 1/2 your husbands, genetically. It really messes up a family, and particularly a child, to be raised by one parent or one parent and a step parent.

Also, love isn't all sunshine and roses. Did no one tell you when you got married that the "stars in your eyes" phase was going to end at some point? That the day to day drudgery of normal life would set in? That sometimes you might even feel like you hate your husband? That other days he just feels like a brother.

Over the years love waxes and wanes. Sometimes it is more exciting and interesting than other times. Maybe in a few years when you decide to go back to college, and your husband support you and does extra work around the house, you might come home from a long exhausted day to a screaming child and he'll pour you a bath and have dinner ready. That's love. That's commitment.

[shh!]

So true, so true...