One Word .... JEALOUSY

[Late_vamp]

i say you just let him know in a straight up way , so he gets the message clearly , or if you dont want to , just hint about it . Eventually he'll get the message ( i hope)

[XPixiedustX]

i say you just let him know in a straight up way , so he gets the message clearly , or if you dont want to , just hint about it . Eventually he'll get the message ( i hope)

yup, i mean really why would a guy dump you just cuz you want him to give you pleasure. Honestly roxy in the long run unless both of you enjoy sex the relationship is gonna be a lil rough. Cuz sex is a really crucial part of a good relationship. You sound like your really scared to lose him...while it's normal when you love sumone to be scared...i dun understand why he'd leave you if you ask him to please you. you say you've done a lot to keep him and from the looks of it you seem to be compromising sumthing that makes you happy, just so he'll be with you....that's sumthing you really shouldn't have to do.

[shh!]

Oh no, this is the right guy. Don't get me wrong Pixie, i'm not saying that because of the way he is in bed, but "the right guy" has a different meaning to girls here. I love sex Shh, but this guy doesn't seem to get the point. And I don't want to say or do anything to lose him. After all, i've done alot to keep him so far. I just wish that he would go down there without me having to spell it out for him.

Am I remembering correctly that you have only been seeing him for three months? Because that seems awfully soon to be calling him the "right guy", and after only three months, it shouldn't be so much work to hold guy's attention.

[XPixiedustX]

Am I remembering correctly that you have only been seeing him for three months? Because that seems awfully soon to be calling him the "right guy", and after only three months, it shouldn't be so much work to hold guy's attention.

I definitely agree with the second part of your comment shh! but i dun think there is a time frame in which you can feel sumone is the right person...i mean i dated a guy for three years and it turned out he was teh WRONG guy...now i've been dating sumone for two months, and though i dun know everything about him...i know enuf to say taht he might just be the "right guy" for me.

[fear_21]

I think the badest feeling u can have is, when you totaly trust your bf/gf, ur not jealous or anything, and then she dumps you. U feel like fooled so much, ur broken down and dont understand anything...that was my case...i was jelous in the beggining of my last relationship, then it started to suck to my gf. ok, i stoped, but then i got fooled and dumped. So, better be aware of that, and be a bit jelous than being totaly careless and then be the idiot, broken down and fooled in the end. believe me..i never trust any girl 100% anymore.

[fear_21]

what means the "right" guy for you, XPixiedustX?

[Fawn]

Ack! *evil eye* You should no better to bring an old thread back. Start new topic!

[RoxyFoxy]

what means the "right" guy for you, XPixiedustX?

Please, do tell Pixie. What does the "right guy" mean for you?

[XPixiedustX]

Please, do tell Pixie. What does the "right guy" mean for you?

well roxy pretty much everything you listed earlier...smart, funny, good looking, loving, sensitive, good job, good family...well that's more genral, personally as long as our personalities fit, we can have a good time together and we make up for anything the other person lacks...he's a guy i could spend the rest of my life with....or in other words the "right guy"

[misombra]

i also believe that roxy is lovelylady. if not i'm glad she's here because i kinda missed lovelylady.

hi "roxy". you don't know what you're talking about. welcome back.

[shh!]

Heehee... Just like old times... She just brings out the devil in me!

[squirrley]

WHEN a woman is married for 50 plus years and still somewhat happy, thats considered the "right guy". The whole "right guy" what shit, its a fantasy, trust me! Been there and done that, so he was NOT the right guy, but people are devious so watch your back ladies and gentlemen. It appears that people have this tendency to put their best foot forward, and AFTER you've become enveloped with that person, their true colors come out! But Im still hopeful...Mr. Right doesnt exist, its what youre willing to compromise for...

[shh!]

People who have been married to the same person for 50+ years have done a LOT of compromising over the years, and have mastered the art of overlooking their spouses shortcomings.

[squirrley]

true true, I couldnt agree more, "mastered the art of overlooking..."

[fear_21]

im sick of all that "right guy" s**it woman come up with. I guess the "right guy" is someone who lets take control of him by the women, is quiet and does whatever the woman says to do. That was just the answer i expected, the perfect guy. I have seen girls breaking up with theyre bf's, meeting an other guy, and they married in a year. Why? I think thats all about because they havent found the right guy, cause there is none. ccc...right guy, woman dont do nothing for the relationship, younger dont, elder i dont know, they all expect the men to do everything, an as soon something istn fine, they think thats not the right one and break up. that sucks...