Here's my story......

[bluesummer]

Ah yes, baadshah, but I'm trying to tell you from a girl's perspective....

If I was uninterested in someone and they kept pursuing me relentlessly, it would not make me start to have feelings for them. It would make me annoyed, mad, and maybe a little scared. I tell you this because it's happpened to me before. I agree with your analogy of 'winners never quit and quitters never win', but that doesn't apply in ALL cases. There are some times when it's necessary to give up for your own good.

[baadshah_007]

[QUOTE=bluesummer]Ah yes, baadshah, but I'm trying to tell you from a girl's perspective....

If I was uninterested in someone and they kept pursuing me relentlessly, it would not make me start to have feelings for them. It would make me annoyed, mad, and maybe a little scared. I tell you this because it's happpened to me before. QUOTE]


blue, im sorry for being a bit harsh. but that's what happens when things doesn't start gettin as u think of.
if u've read my complete story, u will realise that i ve never tried anything forcibly in her.many instances are there to prove this. i may show a lot of frustation infront of u, but infront of her i m really a cooldude. believe me.
infact, i've thought many a times to leave her completely as a fren also, but it's she who comes on coming towards me (i m not optimistic nor am i trying to convince myself).
i would like u to be the girl in her place for sometime and tell u my story in short. just assume that u've a friend who u think has some sort of liking for you, and just assume that some of your frend has spread the word to him ONLY that u have also developed a liking for urself. what would u do next? will u go to him and say him that there is nothing of that sort or would u wait if he asks u the question( that he has come to know from somewhere and asks u is this true).
what i m trying to say is that if u urself know in ur heart that u've no liking for that guy then why would u urself go to him and ask him "has anyone told u that i love u"?. or would u wait for him to ask himself coz there are so many rumours in the everyday world and if u will sweat very badly if u want to put down urself....
in this incident she herself came to me and said that she did not like me. and i thought that whatever little frenship i had was over...
after this incident, we never talked for about 3 months. then we had a new years celebration party. in this party she herself comes to me and wishes me 'happy new year' to which i don't reply anything and rode off. does this thing tell u that i m buggin her or that i m tryin to force her into a relationship? it is she who initiates it. i mean to say that she has got many frens in the world and it is not that her world be different if i don't remain to her as a fren.i m not bein optimistic, but does this incident not tell u that she MAY have a likin for me....put ur self in her place and imagine??...any critism will be appreciated..

[Tone]

any critism will be appreciated..

That's like going swimming with a bleeding wound in shark infested waters...

[baadshah_007]

still waiting for ur reply, bluesummer.