Im confused... whats love?

[SirConfused]

Only you can answer that.
Some easily answered questions to solve this are:
Would you die for her?
Do you want to be with her for the rest of your life?
Could you imagine having her by yourside when your 75 and the sex aint so great?
Would you want her to be the one to carry your children? (assuming you want kids.)

I think you are totally right.

The girl i love i would die for, as i said before i am at my happiest when i am with her and want to spend as long as i can with her.

She is the first girl i have really liked without even thinking about sex, i just love her for the way she is and if i got with her the sex would be an added bonus but at present its not a main concern (never thought i would hear myself say that) but as long as im with her i am happy.
Funnily enough i sometimes think of her as my wife and us having kids and then i say to myself "snap out of it, your not even together!" but if we were shes perfect!

I was talking to my friend the other day and we were saying there is "love" and then theres "LOVE"

People say "love" a lot but dont neccesarily love a person, you could just really really like them. I think "love" is when you would cry if someone dies or if you would take a bullett for them. But to be honest i would probably take a bullet for a lot of my mates, thereforee it is not true full on love, its just a sense of love

Then you have "LOVE" which is for the special person and you would do all the things that Airborn mentioned, like die for them etc. Like with the girl i love i would do anything for her, i would stand by her through anything, i would die for her, i'd literally do anything because shes that special person...thats my opinion anyways! Probably wrong but hey!

[cheazypeaz]

Some easily answered questions to solve this are:
Would you die for her?

well, i dont know about that, but i probably would...

Do you want to be with her for the rest of your life?

yes, i couldn't see it any other way...

Could you imagine having her by yourside when your 75 and the sex aint so great?

i'll be dead before im 75, i'm a motorcyclist!

Would you want her to be the one to carry your children? (assuming you want kids.)

Yes, i would want her to be the mother to my children! for sure!!

Questions answered.. am i in love.. hehe

[SirConfused]

I think you are nearly there but if someone asks you if you would die for them your immediate answer would be yes without even thinking about it.

I dont think about it and i know if i had to choose my life or her life i would die for her anyday.

When you say probably its like you arent sure. The day you become sure you would die for is the day you fall in love in my opinion.

If you love someone they mean more to you than anything in the world, including your own life so you know immediately when you are in love.


Thats how i feel but then again there is no real definition!

[Junket]

Well that depends...under what circumstances would I be dying for this chick?

[cheazypeaz]

haha...

i think if maybe i had a kid or something then i would.. and by die for her, what do you mean? take a bullet for her? .. i dont really understand..

[Kiechi]

I'll take the bullet for the person i'm intrested in 10 fold without a doubt. However, I don't think that necasarily means that I'm in love with this person.

[artyemi]

Love is overrated.

[Junket]

Love is overrated.

I really feel like people put too much emphasis on it.

It's not the only thing in this world worth livin' for.

[Kiechi]

I really feel like people put too much emphasis on it.

It's not the only thing in this world worth livin' for.

Amen to that brother!

[Ekips]

All the money you get, all the power you control, what do you do with it in the end? Raise a family with it. Most people fall in love and get married. Love can create and destroy. Love can make the mightiest warrior crumble to a peace loving person, it can make a CEO lose his job. It can drive people crazy and save people from hopelessness. It's definatly not overratted. I seriously couldn't imagine life without love.

[Junket]

I'm referring to this romantic love.

I believe it's overrated.

I could easily survive on familial, and brotherly love (friends).

[cheazypeaz]

yes, but you my friend, are sad.. and sit on the internet way to much, and i really dont know why you dont appreciate love as such. makes you feel great. thats how good designed humans, to reproduce, and he made a damn good job of it.. because it works!

[XPixiedustX]

i just get points where i feel like why do i bother, and points where i feel all i need is her, its really wierd.. this is why im confused..

i dont really like the idea of the fact she does alot of things and dosent bother to invite me or ask me if i want to come etc.

i just hate the idea of her spending time with some of her mates that are guys, when she could be spending time with me. is that ****ed up or does she just need space or something? .. i dunno .. help!

however she allways tells me she loves me, and says that she would allways be faithful to me and never wants to hurt me.. do i believe this ?

It's ok to be confused...a lil bit of uncertainty is normal...and it's not like you guys are married and have been together for a wholee lot of years...
It's a very good thing that she has an independant identity as well...a lot of time in relationships one person completely loses their individual identity cuz all they do is hang out w/ their partner and do EVERYTHING with them...
so it's OK for her to go out on her own, with her friends...as long as she spends time with you too...
as far as shoudl you believe her when she says that she loves you...that's up to you to decide

[Junket]

yes, but you my friend, are sad.. and sit on the internet way to much, and i really dont know why you dont appreciate love as such. makes you feel great. thats how good designed humans, to reproduce, and he made a damn good job of it.. because it works!

I find it unfair to deem me as "sad" simply because I don't have the same outlook on romantic love as you do.

I'll appreciate love when I have it.

But I don't spend every waking day of my life in search of it. That would be a miserable existence indeed.

The love I have for my family and my friends is just as strong as any romantic love. And I would go as far as to say it feels just as good.

[cheazypeaz]

okie dokie... still one of the odd bolts i gotta say