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    Help!

    Ok, I didn't know where to post this problem I have, so if anyone knows where can I post a problem like this on the web or in this site, please tell me.

    The thing goes like this I'm in love with two girls and I don't know with who to be with. The thing is that when I choose, I know I'll lose the other one for ever and it feels very bad. I just cant stop thinking about it, this dilema is in my head all day, it's quite disturbing, I mean, I can't study, watch TV, nothing! And I don't want to be with both of them so that forces me to choose. I've been loving one for longer, but I've loved the other stronger, not more it's just that she was the first person I couldnt get out of my head for a week. But I love them both all the same. Has it happend to any of you? How the hell do you deal with it? Anyony knows a book about something similar?

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    Doesnt seem to me like you have a solid concept of what love is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by some_one
    I've been loving one for longer, but I've loved the other stronger,
    You should be a poet


    But seriously, i think you need to know which one you like most. You must think about one more than the other, which one do you enjoy being with more?

    Apparently it helps if you write your feelings down as it will get them out of your head for a while and you can analyse whats happening

    or you could just make a list of their pros and cons like Ross did in friends :p
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    My bf put ME through this shit. I don't understand guys that do this at all.

    I think you'll find if you write down a list of comparisons, one is going to be pretty obvious. Its like, my bf took me completely for granted until he looked at the list I made him write and he was like "Yeah....I guess you totally kick her ass."

    Hey....you wouldn't happen to be my bf would you? Cuz if so, boy Ima gonna kick some ass!
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    Clearly you should move to Lincoln, NE, bluesummer.

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    Ha ha ha Tone. If only. Those American visas are impossible to get.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    My bf put ME through this shit. I don't understand guys that do this at all.

    I think you'll find if you write down a list of comparisons, one is going to be pretty obvious. Its like, my bf took me completely for granted until he looked at the list I made him write and he was like "Yeah....I guess you totally kick her ass."

    Hey....you wouldn't happen to be my bf would you? Cuz if so, boy Ima gonna kick some ass!
    I don't understand how guys do this either.

    I guess it's because they (these types of guys, not all guys) want their cake and eat it too. They want it all.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    Ha ha ha Tone. If only. Those American visas are impossible to get.
    Why the **** would anybody wanna come here anyway?

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    Ask them to go on a duel for you and go with the strongest one who wins.

    OR

    IF one is not enough. Convert to Islam and marry both of them (You are allowed to have two more wives after that)

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluesummer
    My bf put ME through this shit. I don't understand guys that do this at all.

    I think you'll find if you write down a list of comparisons, one is going to be pretty obvious. Its like, my bf took me completely for granted until he looked at the list I made him write and he was like "Yeah....I guess you totally kick her ass."

    Hey....you wouldn't happen to be my bf would you? Cuz if so, boy Ima gonna kick some ass!

    If I made that list it would a be a drawing of a vagina.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Frasbee
    Why the **** would anybody wanna come here anyway?
    For me, of course.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    For me, of course.

    (:
    Ooooh, very suave.

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