College probs....

[Seb87]

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. She is amazing and I love her so much!! It was the best two years of my life and I was planning on being with her for the rest of my life. Well she moved recently about 4 hours away. I have visted her twice in the past month or so. Anyway I am in college now and because of that on my last visit she decided to end it. She says she is doing it so I can go to college and have fun without having to think of her. She told me that we will be together again and she still wants to be with me but recently she has been acting kinda strange. And she is so beautiful and perfect that I'm afraid she will find someone else in this seperation period. She doesn't talk to me as much and i have to call her and such. We talk online but I am usually the one bringing up subjects and tryin to keep a convo goin. I dunno whats goin on in her head. I am planning on transfering down to were she lives next year. I just want to be with her so bad and she said she feels the same way..... but she doesn't act like she misses me at all or anything. I dunno mabye she is sad and just has a diffrent way of showing it..... mabye she needs time to think. I have no idea.... Anyone know what i can do?

[Tone]

Forget 'er and move on.

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[Ellynn]

Sounds to me like she wants her space. If its meant to be you two will get back together. You can't push it. Shes giving you the freedom you need right now and I think she wants it as well. Maybe its just so she doesn't have to deal with a serious relationship right now and have fun......and afterwards come back to you after school is done... Or it could be that shes realizing that with the distance between you two......that you guys are drifting apart. It happens. But it sounds to me like the last thing she wants is to have you sacrafice school and all that to be with her. Just have fun and relax. If after school the two of you are meant to be together it will happen. Your young....there are lots of opportunities for you yet....before settling down.

It may be that you want to settle down with her...but it sounds to me like shes not ready right now.

[inkeepingsecret]

yeah she's talking to someone else, or she doesnt want to worry about going out and having a good time.

[Ellynn]

yeah she's talking to someone else, or she doesnt want to worry about going out and having a good time.

Yes, and I would rather have someone tell me its not working out then to have them cheat!

[MajorGlory]

Hey bud I hate to say this but she has simply dumped you
Not even a saint would break with you so that you can have fun without worryin about her.. but you may have an answer to the question why did she do it if you read it reverse.
Sorry bud but you came here for advises and Ill give you my best one.. move on and forger her.. at the moment she has no idea to get back together with you someday and whenever she will I hope you wont my friend.
Stay up and enjoy college time with all its fun.. youll get over her before you may think now. hug bud

[RoxyFoxy]

It seems to me that she let you go. College relationships take a lot of work. Maybe you still thought that you were up for the whole thing, but she wasn't willing to go through with it anymore. Just face the reality, some people want freedom more than commitment. There is nothing wrong with that. She sounds like the type of woman who will never settle down, and doesn't plan to anytime soon. I think that the fact that you talked to her about spending the rest of your life together, made her hasty to break things off. You scared the life out of her with that statement there, i'm guessing. And don't tell me she was looking foward to it. It's all an act hun. My advice to you, is try and get over her as fast as you can. Take a week off if you need to, just get her out of your system. Then, once she's a thing of the past, move on with life. I think guys like you deserve someone who is right for you and also wants to settle down with you and spend the rest of your lives together.