Why are some girls scared of oral?

[jane]

Originally posted by squirrley
Oral sex is the most intimate act of sex! The more the better right!

that is a given... I hope!

[mandingo]

she came around

[jane]

Thank god! Good for you!

[LightOn]

Chalk one up for mandingo!! or shall we chalk two?

[Birt]

I'm 15 and the first time I gave oral to a guy was when I was 13. It was great at first, but then after a lot of shit happened, it made me realize that I shouldn't have done what I did, being so young and all. My mom found out about my giving oral and told me not to do ever again. She also said that you could possibly get STD's from that. The thought of getting STD's scared the crap out of me. It's been a little over a year since I gave head, and since then, I haven't done it at all even though just about guy I've gone out with has asked me to. When I refuse and they ask why I won't, I tell them about how you can get STD's from it. Those are my reasons why I'm leery of giving head. I do, however, let guys give oral to me though.

[confused]

Originally posted by LightOn
Maybe some of them think there cooter stinks so bad you would never speak to them again!!!

Back in school we all knew a few of them..lol

[prissana69]

Since we are on the topic of LOVE as the name of this forum suggests, i would like to point out that no girl would turn down an oral offer from the guy she loves.

personally, i love oral.. or at least, the oral job that my boyfriend gives. the reason for this is beyond selfish gratification, but becos when he does give me such pleasure...i know he's at the proudest state a guy can be, feeling this sense of victory..like a conquest.. knowing a girl's happiness lies in his hands (or mouth for that matter). why shouldn't i let him feel all that manly pride..plus some more, as i feel the urge to do the same for him....but that's another story

maybe the girl you exemplified as being scared of such 'act of love'..isn't truely in love with you (yet)..
maybe if you focus on the mental aspect of relationship first and find other non-physical ways to touch her heart...in the end, she will succumb to your every touch

[sugarashes]

I don't think it is a question of if she loves you or not. Some women can be totally in love with a guy and the thought of going down south or vice versa can just gross her out or she might not be comfortable with her body and her skills. Thank god i am not one of those women. Oral sex is the best physical pleasure in the world according to me. Giving it is pleasurable to me also because I can look at my boyfriend while I am doing it and see how good this is making him feel. That look of ectasy he has is enough for me to love doing it. Make sure your girlfriend is confident about her own body if you want to do it to her and if she is not then praise her body constantly. If you want to recieve make sure you are clean down there and explain to her that it isnt any more gross than sucking on your finger. Good luck!

[Innova]

Originally posted by sugarashes
. If you want to recieve make sure you are clean down there and explain to her that it isnt any more gross than sucking on your finger. Good luck!

ROFL! No, you women suck on your fingers to tease us guys before any of that happens.

[vangirl]

I would never let a guy go down on me until I was very serious. It is sooooooo intimate, his face is right in your pune! Only my boyfriend has ever done it and it is great when he does it but the idea of someone less then a serious boyfriend doing that is weird.

As for giving, I really enjoy doing that just because I love how his body shivers all over and I love all the little moans he makes. I will always swallow just because it is easier to clean up that way. I don't mind the taste at all and he thinks it's great.

The main problem I have with giving head is that by the time he finishes I am all worked up and want to keep going but he is all done. I usually do it as foreplay and when I am on the rag and we don't have sex anyways. Or if I'm not in the mood then it satisfies him without me having to take my clothes off.

It is way more intimate then intercourse to me. I think most girls are scared of it because they don't know what they are doing and they don't really care about the person they are doing it to. It is also a lot harder then it looks. Many times my jaw and cheeks have cramped up from the work and I had to finish some other way.

Another word of advice to the guys (this applies to girls also). If you want oral sex... shave! I can't resist my man when he takes a razor to his boys, it makes it fun and much easier.

[Fawn]

Some of my friends are still completely grossed out by oral. This one friend I have will have sex with her boyfriend but won't do oral (either way).

I think Oral sex is a great experience. ALthough I'm a little selfish. I've gotton it done on me but I've never done it to a guy. oops! Silly Me.

[DelicateRose88]

Don't know the answer to the first question. For the second question, if you perform oral on them, they should on you. Just ask them. Tell them you really like and are looking forward to exchanging some oral pleasure later on. If they care about you, they'll do it even if they don't like it, because YOU want it.

That's my girlfriend. She doesn't really like doing it, but will if I ask her to.

That sounds like the typical pressure guys put on girls: "if you love me youll do it" when their love for you has nothing to do with their willingness to do something she clearly feels uncomfortable doing.

BUT, I do agree with you. When you love someone you'd do anything within reason for them and a little oral sex because your man is a bit of horn dog that way won't kill you so why not.

[DelicateRose88]

lmao. . . too funny

[CAM]

Why are some girls "ill never give head" and most of the time dont even like receiving it? how can i get them to come around?

Easy answer: go stick a carrot in tuna juice, pick your nose and put the nose-crud in the tuna-juice coated carrot, let it sit out in the sun for a half hour and then stick it down your throat.

Then, when you are just about ready to vomit, drink 4 ounces of mayonnaise you've warmed in the microwave (mixed with more tuna juice).

got the point?

[CAM]

Oh, forgot to add this: while you are sticking the carrot down your throat, hold piece of used toilet paper in front of your nose.

Any ideas why girls don't like giving head?

Your crotch stinks.