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    when's the right time to tell her I love her?

    Ive just been going out with this girl for about a week, & i know its proper love because shes all I ever think about & i just cant get her out of my mind. And i want to tell her just how much i love her but because weve only been going out a week i dont know how shell react.

    What should i do?

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    You should tell her tommorow at 2:47 PM.

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    why at 2:47 or was that just random?

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    never tell a girl you love her.. i made that mistake... now i think i love her.. lol

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    I was just showing you how absurd it would be to tell her that. She will probably take that as a red flag-it is. Dont tell her that you love her, this kind of love takes more than a week.

    How old are you? I'm not saying to forget about her. Just dont say that......yet.

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    my guess is he is 14.. lol

    anyway, as for a week.. you dont even know the girl

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    thanks for all your advice, i wont tell her yet

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    Quote Originally Posted by cheazypeaz
    my guess is he is 14.. lol
    actually i am 14

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    Too cute (and funny). Good luck with your girlfriend, sweetie!

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    Wait for her to say it to you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by will10000
    Ive just been going out with this girl for about a week, & i know its proper love because shes all I ever think about & i just cant get her out of my mind. And i want to tell her just how much i love her but because weve only been going out a week i dont know how shell react.

    What should i do?
    A week? Thats it? Well you are young... What you are feeling is strong feelings of liking her.....and you probably love being around her....and its kinda like an infatuation. You really can't "love" someone until some time has passed and you go thru alot of different experiences together...

    I would wait a few more weeks to bring up love.....then just say it...... Im sure she will think its sweet...

    I had a guy say he loved me after a few weeks of dating...I was suprised seeing as it was so soon......but I still thought it was sweet. I didn't say it to him for a month later......when I was sure I felt that way.....
    Appreciate the good times and learn from the bad times....


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    Ellynn, your posts are always so thoughtful and well laid out. I'm very impressed. Keep up the good work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cybog
    a) If you say "I love you" within 3-4 months, expect a breakup.
    that came from something long ago....in a thread by me called "if you dont know how to ask girls out, read this!"

    and actually, if you say it the day after the 4th month, your good to go..

    no dont listen to that crock, i changed my mind...say it whenever you feel like you love the person..regardless to what you think they will think. if they cant accept you to love them now, when would they ever?

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    actually nevermind..i read your post.

    you dont really love the girl.

    dont tell her until she is 16 or something(if your still dating by then)
    and dont say "i love you" unless she says it first.

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    instead of telling her you love her why don't you do something nice for her? make something for her (not a cake please) or pick her a flower.

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