male and female replies :( a month and still not gave up on her

[Worthless666]

ok im into a month now, im only 16 and i dont think its just lust when its been almost a month since she finished me, i wouldnt take her back because she was nasty to me, she used to be ncie, then she started being nice again, then i decided i wanted her back but she rejected me, told me she still lvoed me. now she is with another lad, she is also cheating on him or playing him with someone else and before being with this someone else she also snogged another guy, she currently has tow lads on the go...so as you can see why i eally want to get over her, she meets these guys at the hang out i go to with my cousin and mates so i seriously need to get over her, weve just blocked each other and deleted each other on msn, so like...a month...and i'm still crying over her...dammit i would give everything to move on...i really want to but seriously finding it impossible, ive not got pictures of ehr or anythign ive removed them, ive not got any songs that relate to her anymore, i dont see her by choice, im also trying to flirt with other people to move my feelings on, flirting is working but moving on aint working...

also reason girls to be in this topic...any idea what's going through her head? i mean, what the hell is up with this, even other mates of hers turned against her and feel sorry for whats happened (the full story is much longer)

i didnt mean for anything bad to happen im just...starting to think it's not worth being with anyone, that way you dont lose friends, dont hurt them, dont get ht yourself...

[TAVS]

There's no telling what's going through a 16-yr old girl's head. I'm sorry to say, but at your age you're going to experience this again and again. I'm sure it'll never happen, but you'll be better off if you can just learn to realize youthful relationships are going to end...that's just a fact of life. When you're in your youth, you're just testing the waters of life.

[gHEXjt]

I know how you feel dude. Just keep giving it time. If she's screwing around with all these other guys than she is someone you don't want to be with anyway. If she cheats on other boyfriends, then there's no reason that she wouldn't cheat on you. She obviously has no feelings for you anymore or she wouldn't be acting like such a whore. Time heals all wounds, and that's all I can tell you. I got dumped by my girl well over two months ago and she pulled all this "I still love you shit," but that's exactly what it is, shit. I still get really sad, but just keep trying to hit on other girls and go about business as usual, and in time the pain will recede, or at least that's what I've heard.

[carpflounder]

im just...starting to think it's not worth being with anyone, that way you dont lose friends, dont hurt them, dont get ht yourself...

You could just lock yourself in a closet, it would be lonely, but that way no one would ever hurt your feelings. I'd take a chance, you have to put yourself on the line if you want good things to come. Take a chance with some other girls.

[Late_vamp]

at 16 usual girls dont give more than a **** about what happens a WEEK after the brake up ( im telling ya man , iv lived through it ) so dont stay there and feel sorry , its a waste of time . just beat it (no , not your dick , go find a girl and THEN beat it , again , not her )

[equivo]

Yeah just learn to stop giving a shit. At that age all the girls (and guys too) don't have a clue what they want and most people don't have enough experience to really know how to deal with things properly (or are just too immature).

I spent about a year of my life worrying and getting upset about one or two girls when i was 16/17 and believe me it was a complete and utter waste of time. Play the field until you're older, just try not to upset anyone in the process.

This may seem impossible now but seriously just try to move on and forget, cos when you finally are over it you'll regret wasting so much time worrying about something that really doesn't matter.