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Thread: Next Step in getting this girl to go out with me...

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    Next Step in getting this girl to go out with me...

    Well i already posted before about a girl i knew for a while...who used to go to the same school, and is now going to a different school.

    I got lots of suggestions to take it slow...and so i did...i went out with her, her (girl) friend, and one of my friends..to the movies couple times...then hung out with her at her friend's house passed like midnight..and pretty much we texted alot, and called each other....all as friends....taking it slow...i didnt ask her out or anything...

    well...whats the next step...should i just randomly call her and go "hey want to go out" or should i like invite her somewhere, and make a move there?

    Like where would i ask her to go? since like i do not see her around because we go to different schools now..so i really dont know what to do next...

    I drive...she doesnt...so any suggestions will help...how and where?

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    The location is not so important...as long as you two are alone.
    In fact, continue to take it slow, get her alone a few times before you make a move. Start by holding her hand.

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    Yeah, maybe a daytime date? Like lunch or a walk or a fun activity? Like something active? theatre in the park?

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    Take her to a scary movie, then you have a reason to hold her hand
    Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
    Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
    Towards the sun, carry your name
    In warm hands you are given
    Ask the wind for the way
    Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
    Accept all as it is and do not blame
    God or the Devil
    ~Born to Live - Mavrik~

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    Haha, or bowling, bowlings a great idea. Yea try just stroking her back or something like that, if she gives a positive physical response then you know your going well.

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