A little background....I was seeing a guy....he was an old friend of mine from high school....I remet up with him 3 years later, and we started dating. Things went well at first, then, I saw some "red flags" and I decided that he and I would be better off as friends. A week after I told him this, he told me that he missed me...blah blah blah...one thing lead to another... ...no details needed.
A week later, he had been distant to me...so I confronted him about it. He said that he liked being single...but that he likes hanging out with me and..."we all need to have s.ex from time to time!" (his words, not mine)...I was so insulted....I told him that I would NOT be a "booty call" and that I deserved better. It's been two weeks since our little blow up, and he and I are just starting to say more than "hi, how are you" to one another.
Two nights ago, I get a phone call from him. He tells me that there is a stall opening up at the barn where his mom has her horses (it's two driveways down from the place that I'm at....very nice...10 acres ALL grass). I haven't been happy where I'm at...things are falling apart, everytime it rains the whole place floods, INCLUDING my stalls, and there is NO grass in the pasture (the owner has over 30 horses on 5 acres!). So I told him that I wanted the stall, as long as it was the same price, or less than what I'm paying now....he said that his mom would talk to the owner of the barn....great...so I'm getting excited about at least getting my horse out of there!
Last night, after a great night at the barn (although I haven't heard anything about moving my horse yet), I come home to a new message on my MySpace account. It's from this guy's ex (who was also my best friend in high school....and when I had remet up with him, I didn't know that he was STILL dating her at the time...I slept with him once NOT knowing about her....spoke to him only when I saw him....and he and I started dating a few weeks after he broke up with her.....)....and she told me a COMPLETELY different story than what he's told me. Yeah...I was fuming mad last night.
So, now I have this story from her (which could be true, but I'm taking it with a grain of salt) and I have his story (which could be true...but he pretty much lied to me from day one about a lot of stuff, including having a girlfriend)....and then I have my own gut feelings, which are all confused right now, but are leaning more towards what the ex told me. So, now my dilemna is this....do I confront him, and tell him that I know the "truth", so that he doesn't think that I'm some gullible, stupid girl that he can just manipulate....or do I just shut my mouth and grin and bear it, so that I know I'll get my stall at the new barn, so that my horse can have a better place to live?
Kudos to everyone who actually read it all...LOL....but I'd really appreciate any opinions...I'm really at a loss for what to do! Thanks guys!