You?? Shy? Me too! Welcome to the club!
Don't sweat it guy. It's not as easy as some people make it look. They're just being wreckless. The slow approach always works best if you're shooting for the long term. Find a good lady on campus, build a professional relationship with her, and repeat! Eventually, when you are able to make connections without the backdrop of needing to date, you will find yourself surrounded by much opportunity. And hey, seeing that you've built your basic relationships that far, asking one or two of them to go out isn't too hard - especially if it's under geiss of professionalism.
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