Originally Posted by
whaywardj
Stepping down a moment from the height of my years to mingle with you plebeians:
AENARION! Wake the **** up! You said it yourself. "...had a crush on her the first day...left me stranded..." Read between your own lines. Odds are, you were smothering her with your need and the arguments were, REALLY, all about her trying to get a little oxygen through the emotional stranglehold you had her in.
Ahh, Hayward, it's gonna take awhile till this sinks in for him. Some people are also really good at ignoring the obvious.
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings