Originally Posted by
Zekk_T_Strife
I hadn't seen her for months before Monday night. We have our phases where we see each other daily then lose touch for extended periods of time but we inevitably run back into each other (usually by complete accident too). I've made sure I haven't closed myself off to any other girls. As a matter of fact, the night I hung out with her she played wingman for me and distracted this one guy so I could chat it up with this other girl I thought was cute.
Zekk, my advice for you is to spend less time with this girl until you are very well and truly over her. I've been in these types of situations (I.e. two friends, but one has feelings for the other) and most times they never end up well. Even at times when I played the role of the friend, this whole chemistry felt very different to the real friendship where no romantic feelings are involved. She wants to be nothing more than a friend, she told you this 3 times so this affection or the lack of affection you are feeling is simply a misplaced emotion which is not being returned by her... I recommend distancing yourself from her until you find someone more deserving or until you admit to yourself various reasons why you two can not be more than just friends so in your mind she falls off her pedestal and becomes just another person...
She could also be one of the types of people who likes to create romantically tense or sexually tense environments which never go anywhere, if she is that type then you should defintely distance yourself from her very quickly...
Don't cry, don't regret and don't blame
Weak find the whip, willing find freedom
Towards the sun, carry your name
In warm hands you are given
Ask the wind for the way
Uncertainty's gone, your path will unravel
Accept all as it is and do not blame
God or the Devil
~Born to Live - Mavrik~