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    asking her out???

    i really don't know how i tried but i kind of asked her out and

    TOTALLY GOT REJECTED....

    i don't really like her but

    i feel so depressed..

    because of the fact that i got rejected

    i feel like i need to give up...

    what do i do the next time i see her.. this is so embarrassing

    HELP!!!

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    If you didnt like her then you should have seen it coming.
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    Deal with it. It's no big deal, just means that 1 of the billions of girls on this earth isn't for you. Move on to the next.

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    Don't look at yourself negatively. You got rejected it doesn't mean anything except she's not for you.. Like Tone said, there are other girls out there that will not reject you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Tone
    Deal with it. It's no big deal, just means that 1 of the billions of girls on this earth isn't for you. Move on to the next.
    Well said. The fact that he tried is so important. Keep doing it and don't worry so much...Some guys get turned down hundreds of times before they find the right girl. If it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. What do you do next time you see her? You show her that it doesn't bother you one bit. Relax!
    -to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings

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    Quote Originally Posted by youraddiction
    i really don't know how i tried but i kind of asked her out and

    TOTALLY GOT REJECTED....

    i don't really like her but

    i feel so depressed..

    because of the fact that i got rejected

    i feel like i need to give up...

    what do i do the next time i see her.. this is so embarrassing

    HELP!!!
    If you didn't really like her why did you ask her out?

    Getting rejected isn't the end of the world.... remember your asking a question that generally has a yes or no answer. You'll probably get more no's than yes's, but when you finally do get a yes then you know that that person is feeling the same way as you ijn a "I want to get to know this guy better" kind of way.

    Don't take it personal and when you see her next just be as you always have been. No flippant about it but just like always. It'll do one of 2 things 1) keep you with the same level of friend/aquaintance or 2) make her realise whats she's missing and then it will be pretty obvious when you can ask her again.

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    i didn't really like her means that i liked her as a friend and thought take it to the next by asking her out. anyways thanks guys

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    Good luck to you!
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