Help. :-[

[Tone]

You guys realize this guy is probably in Junior High?

Like Hayward said, let it go. It's one of life's many lessons you're learning for the first time - you cannot make someone love you.

[Junsui]

Yeah, I realize that lol. I was just discussing things.

[Handle]

No, I'm sophomore in High School. However, It's really difficult circumstances to win her heart even she is my first true love in my life and she broke my heart so much that you wouldn't know how much pain it had ever done to me, I have lost most important thing that ever happen to me. I wouldn't regret what I did because I have confident in myself that expressing my feeling of devout to her. Do I will ever have a chance to win her heart eventually?

[gHEXjt]

Do I will ever have a chance to win her heart eventually?

We can't tell you the answer to that. If it happens, it happens. Life throws all sorts of surprises at you. You never know what's going to happen, but you do know that at least for now, she sees you solely as a friend, nothing more. If its not too hard for you, continue to be her best friend. And maybe someday she'll want to be with you like you want to be with her now. But you cannot count on that, and should expect that will never happen. Do not sit around forever, waiting for her to change her mind. Live your life, and look for other girls. You're very young, you've got plenty of time.

[falcon]

basically. i had the same problem. but i didn't really ask her. i did it more in a stealthy aproach.

but your problem can't be solved, unless your sword is like a foot long or you get plastic surgery. She just sees you as a good friend, and that she still wants you around. but basically unless you do what i have what i said above, or saved her life, or someting that makes her see you in a new light, theres really nothing you can do.
sorry.

[youraddiction]

keep the fantasy about her to your self and stay as friends

[Asip4u]

Couldn't disagree more, youraddiction...Certain fantasies can make a man go cuckoo so if he wants to stay depressed for a LONG time, he can do that, otherwise, i advise that he moves on ASAP. You have to remember, he's been feeling this for awhile, it didn't happen just a little while ago.

[Rosebud]

you know when I was reading some of this it brought some points to mind. All friends use each other at one point in time. What is the purpose of having friends? to have someone to confide in, talk to, hang with, etc. When your friends you both use each other for gratification in yourself. It's not just using someone for something as in a negative it's a positive because of what you get out of the friendship.

[Asip4u]

It's natural for us to be selfish with certain things, Rb. A lot of the times we do it without even thinking about it.

[Tone]

It's human nature.

[Rosebud]

Yep, us humans are very selfish creatures!