I agree completely! I have kept a journal my whole life. THAT IS A VERY PRIVATE THING.. I mean, I write things in there to help get feelings out .. Im sure if my boyfriend read it he would flip.. its not meant to be an "actual" event.. sometimes its just what I feel at that moment.
Reading something like that would make me think you dont trust me.. I would have serious issues with that. I cant imagine your girl being calm about it either.. you have to understand that. Its private.
Now since you have read it.. the only thing I can say is .. feelings are just that .. feelings.. if she acts on them is another. People say alot when they think people arent reading.. human nature.
All you can do is be honest.. tell her how you feel, and most importantly try not to make this a trust breaking issue or the relationship is doomed. Good luck.. keep us posted.
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