Sex on the first date

**KenThePartyMan** · 09-03-04, 06:24 PM

Do you have sex on the first date or do you hold out for a month or two.

**squirrley** · 09-03-04, 07:43 PM

hold out. and maybe not even then. If I get to know the guy and see what hes really about later!

**sfalexi** · 09-03-04, 09:49 PM

I'm sorry. But no one is going to take MY flower on the first date. end of story.

**Innova** · 09-03-04, 10:12 PM

w3rd holmes. The ONLY way, and I mena only way..is if she was extremely special, and I would never see her again. But those types of meetings are rare.

**Ironliftr3** · 10-03-04, 01:55 AM

I say the opposite of Innova. The only way I'd 'try' anything with a chick on the first couple dates is if I have no real interest in her whatsoever. If I'm into the girl, and thus have some respect for her, I'd just as soon hold out and let things 'develope'. Stoke the fires, so to speak.

Now on the other hand, if I'm not into her, and couldn't care less if I see her again, then it turns into a 'get what I can and get outta here' attitude.

**Innova** · 10-03-04, 02:09 AM

Sex without meaning is just that...meaningless, so then whats the point.

Now I said IF I never saw her again and cared for her, then I would. If I knew I could see her again to let things develop, then I hold out.

**Fawn** · 10-03-04, 08:04 AM

Okay, the ONLY way I'll have sex on the first date is if I'm really horny or the guy is very hot or if this was a friend that I had a really big crush over. lol.

But I prefer to get to know a person and there sexual history first before I even go into sex.

**IceQueen** · 10-03-04, 09:41 AM

Not for me, at all. As a matter of fact, sex with a person I'm not serious about is out of the question as well. I can masturbate and not run the risks of:
- emotional involvement
- getting pregnant
- catching something awful.

**sfalexi** · 10-03-04, 12:25 PM

I agree with Icequeen. My reasons for masterbation are also
- emotional involvement
- getting pregnant
- catching something awful.

**IceQueen** · 10-03-04, 12:35 PM

Those are not reasons for masturbation. Those are reasons for *preferring* masturbation when horny and partner-less.

**Screwed_Guy** · 10-03-04, 01:41 PM

In this uncertain world of ours, I can always be sure I can fall back on my friend.... my hand

**dazedandconfused** · 10-03-04, 02:54 PM

sfalexi - it's too late for me. i've already developed a strong emotional involvement/attachment to my hand. can't think of what's gonna happen when we are forced to break up

**sfalexi** · 10-03-04, 03:49 PM

At least you're not me. See, I'm normally a righty, but for certain . . um . . practices I use my left. Now my right hand has developed a jealousy and I'm caught in some bizarro love/lust triangle. It's hard. It really is.

Alexi

**Illusional** · 10-03-04, 04:14 PM

Originally posted by Innova
Sex without meaning is just that...meaningless, so then whats the point.

that is very true... one night stands don't have the same meaning. raverboy

**squirrley** · 10-03-04, 07:09 PM

You guys crack me up! Yea, I too stick w/ my right hand! Theres the dominance showing up! I can control my own destiny...

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