Not just american guys, but most guys in generaly (including those in brazil and other countries). That's why we continue mentioning it.Are all american guys all about sex that you all just seem to be unable to stop mentioning it?Most of the time a guy taking a break is trying to figure out if this is the right one for them. They are having doubts about the relationship and want to think about whether it's something they want to continue pursuing or not.I asked why would a guy take a break from a relationship? What is he thinking when he does that?Nope. Not a crime. My ex was born six years before me (making her six years older) and we had a great relationship. And we're on a break now too (she's figuring out whether I'm the one for her). And like I said in my other post, it's not uncommon to see guys going out with girls much younger than them. What IS uncommon though is when guys cross over a certain 'barrier'. Usually legal, but also there is a difference in maturity.IS IT A CRIME TO BE BORN 7-8 YEARS BEFORE THE GUY THAT YOU LOVE?? HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE PARENTS WITH A GREATER AGE DIFFERENCE? HOW CAN YOU JUSDGE ME AND MY CULTURE WHEN YOU HAVE OLD MEN IN YOUR COUNTRY MARRING TEENAGE WHORES??
When I was a freshman in HS, I thought there was nothing wrong with us. I couldn't figuire out why all the seniors always despised us and never wanted to hang out with us. I always said, "What's wrong with us?" Then, when I became a senior, I realized MYSELF that the freshman were annoying. Their sense of humor was crude and base. They didn't understand life and it's experiences. Now that I'm 21, I think that about HS seniors. And it continues. Most of us mature as we grow older. Especially during the high school/college years when we have more and more responsabilities, experiences, challenges, etc. thrown at us.
What bothers me ultimately about this is I can't understand why he seems to be able to get along with you. I'm not saying that anything is wrong with you, just that you are a fifteen year old girl. And the way you type (the cursing, the caps letters, the sentences), and the things you say show me that you have the maturity of a fifteen year old girl (which is completely normal). But he should have the mentality of a 22 year old. Which in most normal cases, shouldn't be compatible with that of a high schooler.
I mean, you say he's a teacher, speaks 5 languages, has travelled extensively, and is a very smart and intelligent man. So what's bothering me is, "Why would an intelligent, successful man get involved with a young, under-experienced, girl still in high school?" And I can't figure it out.
Another thing that bothers me is that he's already asked your father for your hand in marriage? You've only been together 6 months. This is much too early to ask for something like that (unless courting relatoinships are much much shorter in brazil. That I don't know).
That's why I am not comfortable and am still going to say (and will still say it for a while) that you shouldn't be with him. At least not yet. You should finish school. See other people around your age, hang out with your friends, and not even have such things as a future marriage already in your mind.
Alexi