yeah, you're absolutely right there – this is what i did the first time he dumped me. and it's what i've been doing this time as well, but he just won't accept that. he goes on calling me whenever he's drunk and feeling lonely (his new girlfriend having a "night off") or trying to speak to me and groping my arm/trying to hug me on chance encounters (i'm living in a very small town, unfortunately) when i only TELL him off, so i felt i had to DO something about it. – especially since he's started calling my friends as well, in order to sneak back into my life that way.Originally Posted by Musicman
but, since "normal" people don't behave that way, what you've chosen to do really is the best thing to be done. (or does your ex do things like calling you at 4 am, just to tell you how she still loves you and how her new man is so good for her, and even her ex [the one before you] thinks so, but she misses your way of making love so much etc.? – if so, she's as mad as my ex and you can shove your dignity and rejection up your a**)
all i'm trying to say by all this is, that i'm not a mischievous, bitter, old hag that lightheartedly takes revenge on anyone that played her a bit of a trick – it's only extreme situations that take extreme measures (or how did that saying go? – my english is not what it used to be, i'm afraid)