Where I am Now

[MastaPDiddy]

Many of you already know my saga-long threads..here is an update.

Last night I learned of another lie that my ex told me concerning sex. She originally told me she didn't have sex with this person, but now I have undeniable evidence that she slept with him at least 5 times.

So last night I sent her a very nasty text : "**** you. I wish I would have never met you. Don't contact me again"

She called back but I didnt answer, then she texted "what the **** is your problem?" I didn't answer.

I haven't heard from her since.

I am planning on N/Cing for at least a week before I tell her why i sent that text.

Is this a bad ide? Should I call her tonight and tell her why I did that and then resume N/C?

Should I wait for a call from her?

And the most important question...will she listen to the "dont contact me again" part?

Still thinking about her almost the time but its slowly getting better.

[Ratfish256]

Do not contact her again no matter what or you will never get this part of your life over with. Just move on, delete her number, stop sending her texts, the works. End it.

[funsounds]

i forget your situation cuz i'm inattentive and dumb like that...

but instead of blowing up at her via text, you should have just called her up and firmly asked her about it. not blow up at her...but firmly ask via phone call (not text). but what's done is done.

what now? i'd wait for you to cool down a bit and answer her call...and explain what's up, confront her about the lie.

seriously...i totally can't remember the details of your situation! lol

[Cybog]

No, do not talk to her again, just like Ratfish said.

Calling her back only shows that you are the pussy in the relationship, and someone who seems needy and as if you can't get over her.

Just let her go, as hard as it may seem.

[funsounds]

are ya'll separated already? if so...you shouldn't called at all. and now...the above posters are right...let it die. this sort of behavior is self-destructive if the relationship is already over. let it go...

[MastaPDiddy]

yeah the relationship is over but she wants to be friends so that we can "get back to where we were"

[Ratfish256]

yeah the relationship is over but she wants to be friends so that we can "get back to where we were"

That wont happen. You are better off walking away man. You will meet another girl 100 times better than her.

[MastaPDiddy]

That wont happen. You are better off walking away man. You will meet another girl 100 times better than her.

I know.
Believe me I am not blinded by my emotions. I can either walk forever, or give her another shot. Its my decision you see. And if shes worth another shot, how do i give her that shot without outright saying "ok heres another chance?"

At the very least what should i do to make her want me?

[Ratfish256]

I know.
Believe me I am not blinded by my emotions. I can either walk forever, or give her another shot. Its my decision you see. And if shes worth another shot, how do i give her that shot without outright saying "ok heres another chance?"

At the very least what should i do to make her want me?

If you honestly think she is worth another shot start off by aplogizing for the text and any other meanities. After that make it clear that you are willing to give it another shot if she is. Don't beg, just say "If you'd like to give it another shot thats fine with me, if not, ill see you around.

[Tone]

Last night I learned of another lie that my ex told me concerning sex. She originally told me she didn't have sex with this person, but now I have undeniable evidence that she slept with him at least 5 times.

So last night I sent her a very nasty text : "**** you. I wish I would have never met you. Don't contact me again"

Come on now, Masta.

Grow up.

[shh!]

Who wants to take bets on how long this thread ends up being? I am betting at least 12 pages.

[Lloyd95]

Many of you already know my saga-long threads

Snooze........

[alice]

At the very least what should i do to make her want me?

in case you forget: it's YOU who doesn't want HER!

[shh!]

::giggle::

[MastaPDiddy]

Come on now, Masta.

Grow up.

You know sometimes anger just makes you do things like that. It was already a massive undertaking to try and forgive her for all the things she has done behind my back. When I found out that last bit of information, it was the icing on the cake.