Hi. This is really wierd thing to ask, but I have never had to deal with a girl like this. Most of the time if i want to date someone it turns out ok. But this situation/relationship is different. I met her at the gym about two months ago. We started working out together-- then the gossip mill started and everyone asked if we were dating. She blew up and said she did not want to work out I can understand this. So I let it be but she came back and wanted to workout or hangout. In fact, we hang out a lot!! A lot of the time she even pays for stuff. I mean--WOW!! Most of our converaations involve sex or relationships, but here is the kicker she continually states she just wants to be friends, but then she tells me she considers me a close friend and cares about me, but always brings up different guys to see how I will react. I don't like this because I don't know were she is coming from. Now, most of the time when I date I find myself with a gal who wants a relationship. The truth is I am not a player but i am always around a lot of women at the gym and were i work. Its obvious she is concerned because she asks me about all these women i know, and I tell her i have nothing to do with them. She claims she is a christian and does not kiss on the first date, and then she claims does not like intimate relationships. In fact she states she would be happy living by herself and she never wants to have sex again. Plus, she claims she has only been with two guys Ok-- thats cool i can understand this and to some extent appreciate her values. But, i mean she is giving me a lot of mixed signals and if I don't watch it I am afraid I could get hurt. Does anyone have any ideas?