HEEEEEEEEEEELP ME, I can't stop thinking about that woman

[dan_ford]

So I have a plan to talk to her on friday at the bus stop or catch her on the way to the bus stop. Well, but how should I start ? Like saying who I am and that we are learning in the same driving school and start a conversation about something or just say it the way it is, that I noticed her in the school and would like to ask her out some time or something like that. If everything goes well enough I will call her on sunday and ask her if she wants to go for a lunch or a cup of coffie (I think that's good enough for a first date) on monday before or after driving school. Well actually i'm worrying only about this starting part because if she is a good person and if i'll like her everything will go on as it should be. The hardest part for me is just to get her number or e-mail from her, because I have no idea what to say

you might talk to her depending on your level of pussyness? Fix that and fix it soon!!!!!!!!!!! Go to the mall!

As far as starting a conversation, be creative and make it funny. Say something like:

"excuse me mam, can you come over here for a second" (serouse look on your face so it doesnt look like you picking her up)

"hey sweetie, pop my hood and check my oil"

Follow me? You have to practice first. What is so stupid about going to the mall? You know whats even more stupid? You have a weakness(shyness,pussyness, call what ever you want) and your doing nothing to make it better. Answer this question, is trying to improve your self stupid or smart? If you said smart, go do something about it and start practicing!!!

[Tone]

As far as starting a conversation, be creative and make it funny. Say something like:

"excuse me mam, can you come over here for a second" (serouse look on your face so it doesnt look like you picking her up)

"hey sweetie, pop my hood and check my oil"

Follow me?

No.

You can't be serious...?

[dan_ford]

No.

You can't be serious...?

what would you say?

[Rosebud]

"Check my oil" Seriously? Wow, maybe to get a slap in the face. That says no game to me!

[Jog]

ha ha ha you won't belevie what happened yesterday. As I was walking to the bus stop I was totally calm and confident about myself and I was 100% sure that I'll ask her phone number on the bus stop. So as I was close to the bus stop I saw her standing there about 20 metres in front of me, I was walking towards her when suddenly a man pulled me from behind by my shoulder and said in a funny tone "Hey, what the hell are you doing here?"...it turned out to be one of my best friends. I was kiddna shocked because I was very concentrated of that girl. While I was standing there shocked I thinking what to do, chat with my friend or go to than girl, the bus came and she stepped in. I decided that I will wait for the next one and chat with my friend. When I told him about that girl and this situation we kidda laughed and he was sorry for bothering me, but I wasn't angry, actually I thought that that was kindda funnny. Well it's OK, because I allways can ask for her number tommorow. But I'm still a bit shocked, because it was like in movies, when main character is getting ready to do something very importand and someone disturbes him...

[dan_ford]

ha ha ha you won't belevie what happened yesterday. As I was walking to the bus stop I was totally calm and confident about myself and I was 100% sure that I'll ask her phone number on the bus stop. So as I was close to the bus stop I saw her standing there about 20 metres in front of me, I was walking towards her when suddenly a man pulled me from behind by my shoulder and said in a funny tone "Hey, what the hell are you doing here?"...it turned out to be one of my best friends. I was kiddna shocked because I was very concentrated of that girl. While I was standing there shocked I thinking what to do, chat with my friend or go to than girl, the bus came and she stepped in. I decided that I will wait for the next one and chat with my friend. When I told him about that girl and this situation we kidda laughed and he was sorry for bothering me, but I wasn't angry, actually I thought that that was kindda funnny. Well it's OK, because I allways can ask for her number tommorow. But I'm still a bit shocked, because it was like in movies, when main character is getting ready to do something very importand and someone disturbes him...

Did you use any of my advise? If so, what ones? You get that E-Book? Hope to hear back from you soon!

[Rosebud]

Don't worry about going to a mall and asking a bunch of strangers out or whatever, just build yourself up to get the confidence to speak to this girl. Keep us posted on this!

[Jog]

oh OK,i'll keep you informed...so on friday she didn't come so my last chance is on monday. So guys, wish me luck and I'll see you guys on monday evening with her number or without it

[clynn]

With it! With it!

Good luck and I really hope that you ask for her number!!!!!!!

[dan_ford]

.......I'll see you guys on monday evening with her number or without it

Reword that, I'll see you guys on monday evening with her number of with it

Think positively.

[Jog]

Good luck and I really hope that you ask for her number!!!!!!!

don't worry i'm gonna do that anyway tomorrow is the big day for me and I just wanted to say that I really appreciate you help and you support, you really helped me to overcome this "don't be a pussy" thing. You're all very helpfull here. Thanks guys.

[Tone]

Good luck!

Be sure to tell us what happens.

[Jog]

OMG the world is ****ing small

OK here it goes. I didn't get her number, but anyway everything went pretty well. It turned out that we have two exams. I've passed the first one and the second one will be on next monday, so I'll ask her number on next monday. Anyway I've talked to her all the way from the bus stop to my home so that allready proves that i'm not a pussy. She is actually very nice person and I liked her very much. And it will be easier for me to ask her number on next monday because i've allready talked to her. But the most astonishing thing is that the WORLD IS ****ING SMALL She knows my best friends friend and is learning in the same school with him and she knows my best friend too. Oh come on...wtf...what are the chances of that happening well anyway I liked her and I'll ask her number on next monday.

[Tone]

Good job guy.

You didn't get her number, but you made a huge step today in initiating some conversation and helping her feel comfortable with you.

Make sure NOTHING stops you next Monday from getting her number.

[dan_ford]

Good job guy.

You didn't get her number, but you made a huge step today in initiating some conversation and helping her feel comfortable with you.

Make sure NOTHING stops you next Monday from getting her number.

Jog, just out of corousity, what did you say to her, how you start the conversation?