Hi everyone, just thought i'd like to introduce myself and give a little background on how i found this place. My name is James, and living in the beautiful San Francisco, CA. anyway, a few weeks ago my girlfriend of 2 years calls me up from Miami (vacation) and tells me out of the blue she doesnt want to be with me anymore. whoa! that was a damn shocker to me, like a sucker punch right in the face. She gives some B.S reason like we have been different lately, that she wants SPACE. now, heres the thing, i always give her space, im at work 45-50 hours a week, i barely see the chick. so space?? i dont get it. Anyway, so i agreed, she seemed like she had made her mind up long before telling me.
Well, after constantly asking her what happened (i couldnt leave without knowing the whole truth) she finally gave in and said she found someone else thats better than me, that treats her better than i did, and that they shared more of the same goals. OUCH!
Now if she had said, she wanted to focus more on school, and finding a job and such i would have been ok. But theres another guy involved and that just literally killed me inside, the whole male ego thing got the best of me, i tried everything humanly possible to get her back, but i kept questioning myself. Do i really want her back or am i just doing this because i lost to another guy and i wanted what was mine back. after thinking long and hard i figured if shes gonna do this to me i honestly could care less about her. I mean it was hard but i accepted the fact that she doesnt want me anymore. Now im doing fine and life is normal again. I forgot how much fun being single is. I even dusted off the old Black book of numbers and started reconnecting with old friends i lost touch with. Lifes good, live it up!
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25-01-06, 12:22 AM #1
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Hey everyone
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25-01-06, 12:25 AM #2
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Way to be Bro. Don't let some broad slow ya down.
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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25-01-06, 12:26 AM #3
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Hey welcome. BTW, TAVS has a girlfried.
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25-01-06, 12:27 AM #4
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Gah - this is like the 3rd person this week...
People - this is the INTRO forum, just say hello, give a brief little intro and be done with it.
Save all your relationship drama for the specified forums.
Welcome James.
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25-01-06, 12:27 AM #5
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Oh Thanks Lloyd, I forgot to mention that.
Originally Posted by Lloyd95
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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25-01-06, 12:29 AM #6
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Don't mention it. Originally Posted by TAVS
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25-01-06, 12:32 AM #7
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Woops! sorry about that! Originally Posted by Tone
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25-01-06, 12:38 AM #8
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No worries - it's just you'll have a better chance at gettin your question/problem/situation read if you put it in the right section.
Not as many people read this forum as the others, and I know that I, personally, never read anyone's intro if it's like 4 paragraphs long.
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25-01-06, 12:43 AM #9
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what's the point of an intro that only says something like "uhm, hi, it's me."? Originally Posted by Tone
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25-01-06, 12:48 AM #10
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I dunno. It's the point of the forum.
It's like if you're hanging out with your friends and they invite someone new along and he's like "Hey what's up I'm Billy - nice to meet you. So check this out - two weeks ago my girlfriend is all like 'Hey I wanna split up' and I'm all like 'Uh how about no?' and then she's like....." etc.
Like I said that's just me. Build a little rapport first.
I was just helping James out because not as many people read this forum, and if he wants some serious help/advice he should post his situation in the dating/breakup/sex forum.
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That's perfect actually, as long as it is accompanied with a pic. Originally Posted by alice
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25-01-06, 12:49 AM #12
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Of his girlfriend, right? Originally Posted by Lloyd95
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25-01-06, 12:52 AM #13
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well, he wasn't asking for advice, as far as i can tell. Originally Posted by Tone
and, lloyd – we all know, pictures are easier for you to "read" than something like a whole paragraph,
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25-01-06, 12:53 AM #14
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naked. Or pasties. Originally Posted by Tone
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25-01-06, 12:56 AM #15
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LOL! Originally Posted by Lloyd95
naked. Or pasties.
FINE THEN Originally Posted by alice
Keep this up and I'm gonna find someone else to take to the LF prom... geez...
