Marry her? WARNING: LONG!

[Rosebud]

Yea we can all be neighbors!!!! That would be fun!

kristonita- And since when are you not mature if you ask for advice? Hmm, you came here looking for advice as well, are you saying YOUR immature?

[kristonita]

Also, Thank you for the rest of your comment. I do take your advice to heart. Eveyone I have talked to says "Don't marry early" and "Wait". I think I just needed to hear it from other people. Thanks again.

I think everyone on here is being just a little bit jerky. He asked for some advice, that's it. He didn't ask whether you think he's a good person for having stolen his friend's girl or anything like that. But, since we're all giving opinions, I'm going to give mine. I think that if a person becomes a friend of the girl moreso than the boy and understands what kind of emotional crud she's dealing with, it would be really hard not to want to help someone in that situation. Furthermore, if he found himself falling for this girl and himself falling out of friendship with the guy, it's his responsibility to look out more for himself and her than it is for his so called friend. Finally, they had only been dating a year, this is by no means the same thing as hitting on a married woman. I think the accusations of preying on emotionally unstable women are unfounded and cruel... this guy's just in love and wants to know how to deal with things, that's what this forum is for.

[Lloyd95]

I think everyone on here is being just a little bit jerky. He asked for some advice, that's it. He didn't ask whether you think he's a good person for having stolen his friend's girl or anything like that. But, since we're all giving opinions, I'm going to give mine. I think that if a person becomes a friend of the girl moreso than the boy and understands what kind of emotional crud she's dealing with, it would be really hard not to want to help someone in that situation. Furthermore, if he found himself falling for this girl and himself falling out of friendship with the guy, it's his responsibility to look out more for himself and her than it is for his so called friend. Finally, they had only been dating a year, this is by no means the same thing as hitting on a married woman. I think the accusations of preying on emotionally unstable women are unfounded and cruel... this guy's just in love and wants to know how to deal with things, that's what this forum is for.

Opinions are like @ssholes, everyone has them and everyone's stink.

[Rosebud]

OK, didn't he already say he made his decision? All that debate was in the beginning of this thread. And I think everyone decided to stop bashing him for what he did and give him advice, why does this need to get brought up again? It doesn't. Period!

[kristonita]

OK, didn't he already say he made his decision? All that debate was in the beginning of this thread. And I think everyone decided to stop bashing him for what he did and give him advice, why does this need to get brought up again? It doesn't. Period!

yeah, i'm pretty much new to the love forum. i tend to write before i realize there are pages and pages more of advice already written. so please excuse, and don't jump all over me for being new!

[Tone]

Mmm so what CAN we jump all over you for?

[Rosebud]

I don't jump on people for being new! Don't worry, Just try and read more of the thread before posting..and please don't jump on the regulars, even though some comments may seem harsh, they only speak the facts!

[Tone]

So what DO you jump on people for, RoseB?

[indigosoul]

I'll live in the apartment down the hall...

Isn't there a saying that Its more fun in hell... cause thats where all the interesting folk go...?

OK, Vash, so you're married, like me. Can't be the livivng in sin, thing. Soooo, what did YOU do to deserve to go to hell, huh?? Inquiring minds want to know...

[vashti]

I should be in Hell because I WANT to live in sin. I am a "good girl poser". Besides, being stuck in Heaven with all the goody-two-shoes sounds pretty much like Hell to me.

[Rosebud]

I can agree with the above statement about the goody two shoes!!!

[kristonita]

Mmm so what CAN we jump all over you for?

plenty of things!

[kristonita]

I don't jump on people for being new! Don't worry, Just try and read more of the thread before posting..and please don't jump on the regulars, even though some comments may seem harsh, they only speak the facts!

sometimes they don't. they weren't even answering the right questions most of the time..and none of it is fact, only opinion.

[Rosebud]

No offense, but you haven't been around long enough to make that decision Kristonita. And just because things are said that people don't approve of or agree with, does not make them wrong! If people come here looking for advice, just becasue they ask only one question does not mean they won't get a whole perspective on what has happened.

The way they met plays a part in what he was trying to decide so that has to be taken into consideration. And actually yes some of it was fact!

Edit: And please don't double post! I'm not being mean, it's just these are things our mods frown upon!

[kristonita]

No offense, but you haven't been around long enough to make that decision Kristonita. And just because things are said that people don't approve of or agree with, does not make them wrong! If people come here looking for advice, just becasue they ask only one question does not mean they won't get a whole perspective on what has happened.

The way they met plays a part in what he was trying to decide so that has to be taken into consideration. And actually yes some of it was fact!

Edit: And please don't double post! I'm not being mean, it's just these are things our mods frown upon!

Well, no offense rosebud, I think I don't really care if I've been around long enough to make a decision. Looks like I made it regardless, yeah?