HEEEEEEEEEEELP ME, I can't stop thinking about that woman

[theotherguy0123]

Jog man, you should have asked her for her number today right before you got off the bus with her or something, I mean if anything is to happen next Monday, like what if she doesn't show up or something...But I hope you get her number next Monday though, good luck.

[Tone]

Yeah we better not hear anything on Monday like "OMG GUYS you won't believe this - the most incredible thing happened!! See well I didn't get her number, but LISTEN WHY - while I was gettin off the bus to approach her out of the corner of my eye I saw my BEST FRIEND FROM KINDERGARTEN feeding the birds! I had to go talk to him! I'll ask her number next Monday"

NO EXCUSES

[Jog]

Jog, just out of corousity, what did you say to her, how you start the conversation?

Well at the start of the course they gave us documents with names and phone numbers of all the driving instructors. So I just came up to her at the and said that I've lost that document some time ago and that I haven't started my driving practice yet, so I asked if she doesn't have that document with her, because I'm to lazy to go back to the drivng school after another copy. Well she had one and then we just started talking.

[clynn]

Way to go!! Nicely done.

yah, it'll be a perfect set up now for you to talk to her and get her number next week.

Yahoo! And yay for small worlds, that will help things too.

Well at the start of the course they gave us documents with names and phone numbers of all the driving instructors. So I just came up to her at the and said that I've lost that document some time ago and that I haven't started my driving practice yet, so I asked if she doesn't have that document with her, because I'm to lazy to go back to the drivng school after another copy. Well she had one and then we just started talking.

[Jog]

Hey guys, it's monday evening.

Ok guess what, I was just going to ask her number when my best friend came up and started hitting me for no reason. So I was ashamed of myself and didn't ask her number.

OK OK OK, I'm just fooling around I got her number. YEEEEHA Oh I'm sounding so pathetic, don't I ? Well, I just kinnda happy, because she seems so nice and It seems that she's interested in me and I like her too. Well ok so what should I do now ? My plan was to call her after a few days and ask her for a lunch. Is that a good idea or should I ask her to some interesting restaurant and that other stuff ?

[toohot4pants]

lunch or coffee or something like that is not a bad idea at all for a first date/meeting...it's casual and you'll get a chance to talk. dinner works too. dinner is more "date-like". it's up to you. you can save an evening outting till the second date if you want.

[Tone]

That's a great idea.

Wait a couple days and invite her to something casual, like lunch or coffee.

Good job! I knew you were joking when you started out - it made me laugh. :]

[clynn]

Way to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(I didn't know you were joking )

Yes, lunch or coffee would be awesome.

And....this may sound really obvious....but it came to light to me the other day that sometimes maybe guys don't get it or are just inconsiderate or something.....

....but...if you're asking her out....make it easy on her. ie: meet her in her neighbourhood. Don't ask her to meet you for coffee at some out of the way place 1/2-way across town that she'll have to take 3 buses to get (or something).

Make it easy, convenient and light. That's a good starting place. (you sound smarter than some of the twerps I've dated....but I just thought I'd throw that out there!)

Sounds very promising!

[Tone]

How did the conversation end up going when you asked for her number?

Give us some details.

[Jog]

well, I just came up to her and thanked her for that list that she gave me and that it really helped me a lot. Then I just said that it is kinnda last time I would probably meet her ever again and I just asked her if she doesn't want to meet somehwere after a few days. She said that she would love to and she just gave me her phone number. pretty easy. I don't know why I was so nervous about this whole thing

[dan_ford]

well, I just came up to her and thanked her for that list that she gave me and that it really helped me a lot. Then I just said that it is kinnda last time I would probably meet her ever again and I just asked her if she doesn't want to meet somehwere after a few days. She said that she would love to and she just gave me her phone number. pretty easy. I don't know why I was so nervous about this whole thing

If you don't like face to face conversations, take her to the mall shopping. When the two of you get more confortable, then maybe you can have launch or coffee. Let us know when you call. Did the number work or was it a fake? Keep us posted!

Dan

[Jog]

The number is real, because when she gave it to me I called her and her phone was ringing

I'm gonna call her tomorrow, because now it is kinda late here. I think I'll go with her for a cup of coffie when she's free. Well if i'll like her then I'll probably take her to my favorite bar where I usually hang out with my friends. It's kinnda Cuban bar with cool cuban music and I just love the atmosphere there. I hope she'll like there too. I'll report to you tomorrow after i'll call her.

[clynn]

yay ya yay yayayay

[Jog]

well I called her and she's free on monday evening, so I invited her for a lunch. I'll pick her up after her french lessons. She told me where it is so it's not a problem.

[clynn]

So an evening lunch? ha ha . good for you. can't wait to hear.