Is it more to me...

[earlydecember]

Hey guys my first problem hope you can help.....

I'm 18 and i've always dated younger girls, I don't know why but there's always some kind of attraction and I get one really well with them. My girl friend at the moment is 15, 16 in a couple of weeks and we've been going out for 9 months. It's the longest i've ever been with anyone and we are in love and see each other nearly everyday and have loads of fun.

A few weeks back I had a crush on one of my college mates who I get on with really well. We have a laugh at college and thats about it, I thought it was a passing thing.

The feelings came and went and now there back, we have even arranged to go out some time next week to see a film. I know this isnt wrong because she's a mate but I can't help feeling that something might happen, or that it's more then friends going out somewhere, all the other guys in the class think/say that something is going to happen between us!

Please help, am I just being an idiot and worrying about nothing is there more to the picture???

Thanks.

[WhiteXFlamez]

ok is your problem.....that you love that 16 year old and you're going to go out wit this girl from college, and you scared that you cheating???

or you asking......should you just go straight up with the college girl and forget the young one?

i don't know exactly wut problem
but juss hit it up with the college one
cuz you're in college
and being wit a young one (there mostly immature)
but i can be wrong

plus when you have "sex" wit the younger ones...you might get in trouble wit the law.....

but thats my 2 cents.....

[PandaCivic]

unless the high school girl is taking extra classes at a college to graduate early!!! ...nevermind...

i would say just see how things go with the girl in college. you're only going out as friends but since you're in a relationship, you need to tell ur other girl what you're doing, that's just plain disrespectful. but your intentions are wrong to begin with. but you're not married so don't act like you are. go have fun. i would say go for the college girl since you'll see her more i assume.

[earlydecember]

In answer to flamez im scared i'll end up cheating on my girlfriend because of the attraction to my college mate. It's not like im going out to cheat on her, im just living my life and having fun, I just worry.....

[sfalexi]

In answer to flamez im scared i'll end up cheating on my girlfriend because of the attraction to my college mate. It's not like im going out to cheat on her, im just living my life and having fun, I just worry.....

Then if you want to avoid cheating there are two options I can think of right off the bat.

A) Break up with your current girlfriend so you can have the freedom to date and not have it considered "cheating" if you get VERY close to one of your dates.

B) Don't go on the date. If you don't think you would be able to hold back if she comes onto you, then avoid the situation. Otherwise, if you can't stand it and you DO accept her flirting and end up hooking up, then you've cheated.

Alexi

[WhiteXFlamez]

yeah like what sfalexi said

[Pretender]

You enrage me with your carelessness. If you think something might happen with this "college mate" then why put yourself in a situation like that. You are doing nothing but hurting your unsuspecting girlfriend who I assume you told her you are just friends there is nothing to worry about...

Seriously, what are you thinking?