Sex problems don't even describe this...

[Only-virgins]

Bitter much?

No, not really.

[i.am.me]

In response to several questions...

the reason i have a boyfriend is because we have such a good time together ( you know when we are not arguing), we are like best friends practically, we know pretty much everythin about each other and its nice to be able to talk to sumone who is so close to you, who knows you so well that you dont need to explain past experiences with because they already know. And i don't want to be nasty but personally a relationship isnt just about sex anyway, i mean when you are in a committed relationship, i.e. being married, or not ever married, it isn't about sex. Just think how often do you think your parents have sex now or when they were 30, 40, 50... if you just think the only reason to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend is to have sex then your mixing relationship up with **** buddy.

And about the abortion, basically that website pretty mch said what it was about but from my experience i went into hospital at about 8am and soon after i had a pill of some sort inserted into my cervix (it basically helps to losen me up so that it is easier to get the operating tools inside and to get the baby out. After about 2 hours of letting the pill do its work, i was taken to the operating room where i had a drip attached to my hand an heart monitores on my chest and side. I then had a oxygen mask on while the injected the general aneastetic (i dont know if that spelling is correct), i don't even remember going to slep but when i woke up at about 12 i was taken back to the ward and stayed there until about 2.30 when i got dressed an put into a recliner chair. i wasn't allowed out of hospital until 4pm because i had a very low blood pressure (90/40) when its meant to be 120/80.

Its been 3 weeks on tuesday an i still have very crazy mood swings, me and my boyfriend are still arguing, about my mood swings which he obviously doesnt understand otherwise we wouldn't be argueing about it. I am going to make an appointment at the doctors for as soon as possible because i am still extremely depressed and moody and i want to know if it is normal.

anyway thanks again for all your help, i just thought i would let you know how im getting on.

Aim xx

[Only-virgins]

then your mixing relationship up with **** buddy.

Nah.


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[alice]

Its been 3 weeks on tuesday an i still have very crazy mood swings, me and my boyfriend are still arguing, about my mood swings which he obviously doesnt understand otherwise we wouldn't be argueing about it. I am going to make an appointment at the doctors for as soon as possible because i am still extremely depressed and moody and i want to know if it is normal.

good to hear, you're going to do aomething about your depressions. i hope, you're doctor can help you (not by simply prescribing pills, though), and you'll soon feel better. good luck to you!

[Rosebud]

Sweetie, i'm glad your going to the doctor to have all this checked out. I do think a lot of this has to do with your hormones and all the stress that you ahve recently taken on about this guy and everything else. This is a lot to deal with all at one time. I wish you the best and keep your chin up, things always get better!

[XPixiedustX]

I totally agree with rosebud, this guy really needs to go. I was in a relationship similar to this one, and it was bad, after 3 years of dating him I finally ended it. It was really hard, and it took a year till we finally lost contact...but trust me it'll do good for you, in the long run. you will find someone who is sooo worth it!

[Rosebud]

Keep us posted on all the stuff ok?

[i.am.me]

Well as requested I will keep you posted. The other day (monday) we had a huge arguement, over sumthing little as usual. Anyway basically we broke up and then on tuesday we got back together, and today we had a huge argument again and gone on a break. I find that I alwasy want to go back to him, it's not that i don't love him but just the things he does annoys me and alot of things remind me of what annoys me about him. I dont really know what to do about it considering I alwasy end up going back to him, should I just not bother making any contect with him at all and see if him came to me? or should I just end it completely?

[Converse]

End it, enjoy singledom for abit.

[clynn]

Thanks for the updates, keep us posted. All the best and hopefully things will level out for you shortly.