Odd?

[Only-virgins]

I would just like to say first off.. it's not good to lie at all not to mention this would be your first real relationship and why start it off bad? Your right OV your past is your past but being a vrigin and not ahving any relationships is what makes you...YOU right? and why wouldn't you want your SO to know this? What happens if the time comes and your ready to sleep with her and you ahve no clue on what to do? Do you just go along with the flow and hopes she doesn't think your bad instead of inexperienced, or what about any arguements you guys ahve... It makes mroe sense when soemone doesn't have experience behind their belt.
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I have been saying that for ever I swear. A lie is a bad way to start, offcourse I believe that Rosebud. here is the thing I am saying. If you and I have the right to know if the partner is a virgin or not then why can't I know how many partners you have had and if you are a virgin? Being with to many people in the past make you YOU also right? so it is my right to know also. You people did say that your past is your business brefore and now all of you change your mind.

You wouldnt want your "so" to know in a case like his, were she may leave.

[Gigabitch]

Be careful. The first woman you're with could end up owning you. It's really important that you find someone with a kind heart who will understand who you are and not abuse you.

There's shy and then there's terrified. Which are you?

[Rosebud]

If you and I have the right to know if the partner is a virgin or not then why can't I know how many partners you have had and if you are a virgin? Being with to many people in the past make you YOU also right? so it is my right to know also. You people did say that your past is your business brefore and now all of you change your mind.

You wouldnt want your "so" to know in a case like his, were she may leave.

I see what your talking about and I agree everyone should be honest. The reason people say your past is your past is so they are not judged soley becasue of that. Granted I do think everyone should know who they are really dating but I think it's un-fair to label someone who may ahve done things they regret in the past and are trying to move on from it. Everyone has to start somewhere right? It's not that the past is the past and nobody should know who you are, they were saying that becasue people were judging their partners and worrying about things BECAUSE of what they did in the past.. see what i mean?

And you should know how many partners someone has had if you are wanting a relationship with them, just as they should know your a virgin! I agree with you.