If you are at an event and a guy says to you and another girl, "so ladies, what are you doing tonight"? Would you consider that a opening to him wanting to do something with you or just a simple question???
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21-03-04, 07:24 AM #1
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What could it mean?
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21-03-04, 07:29 AM #2
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oh yea thats a headliner for sure!
Do you know this guy?
he was looking for action later...everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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21-03-04, 07:31 AM #3
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No, we just met him that night. I thought it was unusual that he would say that since we were there, so we were already doing something. I'm guessing he was referring to after the event. Do you really think he was fishing for some info. for us to get together after the event?
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21-03-04, 07:37 AM #4
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oh yea girl! Becareful of men like that! Thank goodness you had other plans.. he sounds scummy...and scary...
everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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21-03-04, 07:44 AM #5
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hahaha... he just wanted sex. plain and simple. raverboy
...this is just my perspective on the situation...
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21-03-04, 08:40 AM #6
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If a guy asks you that question you better believe he really does want to know what you're doing. The thing is with males (from my experience) they wont' ask simple questions like that unless they mean it. They dont' usually waste time on simple talk unless it's going to get them somewhere in the future.
Now as to what his intentions were that night it doesnt' necessarily mean he was looking for a peice of ass he could of been wanting to hangout with you guys by asking to see if you were busy. Because no one wants to be rejected he was just feeling you out.One day the Moon said to me, "If he makes you cry, why dont you leave him?" I looked up at the Moon and said, "Moon would you ever leave your sky?"
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21-03-04, 08:44 AM #7
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No. He wanted sex.Now as to what his intentions were that night it doesnt' necessarily mean he was looking for a peice of ass he could of been wanting to hangout with you guys by asking to see if you were busy. Because no one wants to be rejected he was just feeling you out.
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21-03-04, 11:56 AM #8
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So Squirrley...what are you doing tonight???
Because a hard man is good to find.
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21-03-04, 12:13 PM #9
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SEE- now thats a pick up line right there!
He just wants sex.....everything happens for a reason...beginning to wonder why.
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21-03-04, 12:30 PM #10
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Damn....she figured me out. Am I that obvious??
Because a hard man is good to find.
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21-03-04, 03:19 PM #11
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It's an opening for a threesome.
What a sleazebag.
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21-03-04, 05:03 PM #12
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While also leaving room for one girl to say something along the lines of, "I'm not free. But SHE'S not doing anything!" so that hopefully, if the 3 doesn't work, he can still get some anyway.It's an opening for a threesome.
Besides, if he really wanted to know you, he would've talked to you. Not asked you what you're doing tonight and then if you were busy just walked away. If he wanted to have ANY chance of hanging out, he would have at LEAST gotten your number or something. But even then, beware since he started out with one thing on his mind.
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21-03-04, 10:10 PM #13
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Now, there is no such thing as “just a simple question.” I am a guy, and as such I have a lot of guy friends, who have friends as well, and so on. If a guy whom you don’t know approaches you with this type of question he is either (i) overconfident and looking down on you (ii) horny as hell or (iii) high on drugs. If you knew the guy, or have at least met him before, it’s a different story altogether. Reverse the situation and ask yourself “under the same circumstances, time, location, etc. what would have motivated you to go and ask the same question of him.” If you find a motive in you that may have prompted you to ask that question than chances are he had the same motives. If the answer is something like “I have no clue, and I certainly would not have approached him” then run the other way because he may as well turn out to be some sort of a predator, or worse. Sorry, did not mean to spook you. There are good people with good intentions that ask this type of question – not many though. It all depends on the little details that none of us on the other side of the terminal know.
Cheers.
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21-03-04, 11:02 PM #14
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he wanted to get his piece wet!!!
Ever so sweet,
You baked in cakes for me,
What you left behind,
It hurts my teeth.
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22-03-04, 06:42 PM #15
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The guy's got balls for going up to random strangers and asking them that......I'm sure he after several tries, he ended up getting some sucker to go back home with him.
