i really like this girl...

[helpme...]

hello, i really like this girl and i might be seeing her tonight (just me and her) we just be walking and sitting down and stuff talking i met her for the first time the other day. well now ive met her i want to go further,
i want to go out with her and stuff but i want i want to kiss her to ask her instead of asking 'would you go out with me' kinda thing but im not sure on how i will go about doing this.
i want to do it while we sitting down on bench somewhere and i want to do it right so how can i do this? what should i say before i get her to think wot i want? and then what shall i do??

any help would be great thanks,

[helpme...]

ive just thought, that when we go in we hug...could i when she pulls aways i keep my arms around her and look in to her eyes then kiss her ? would that work?

[vashti]

You'll have to try it to find out.

[Kieran]

Are you 15 by any chance?

[helpme...]

well im 16 why does that make any difference

[lovesjoyajm]

I don't think kissing her is a good way to ask her out...it's not as "definite" as you might think. I've been kissed by 3 guys and for at least the first two, they did not mean it as a "will you go out with me?"... we'll see about the third one hehe. Anyway, I would talk to her - much more straightforward and less likely to be confusing or misleading.

[Kieran]

No difference.. just thoguht you might be a young chap.

Try taking it easy mate, if you want to kiss her just say "how much would you pay me to kiss you?" That should add a bit of humour to it all and take the pressure off.

[vashti]

No difference.. just thoguht you might be a young chap.

Try taking it easy mate, if you want to kiss her just say "how much would you pay me to kiss you?" That should add a bit of humour to it all and take the pressure off.

Oh no - don't do that! Jeez, some of you guys have interesting senses of humor.

[misombra]

yeah, i'd say "two pennies" and then kick you in the balls if you said that to me.

[vashti]

haha - and maybe steal his wallet while he was doubled over in pain?

[Kieran]

LMAO! You girls are so full of it.. if a guy came up to you with a cheeky smile and said that then you'd go all girly and start some play fighting or something equally ghey. Don't listen to em mate... they'll say something weird like.. respect her.. or buy her flowers or some shi4t..

Tell her your name is Shay... when she says "shay who?" you Blast back with


"Shayve yer bits and sho me yo tits!"


That will go down a treat

[helpme...]

would when we say bye be a good time as in the way i said? like when weve hugged and she breaks or me breaks away i keep my arms around her or on her hips and try n kiss her ? would that work?

[Kieran]

Tell her she has something on her lip then spit in her face.

[vashti]

would when we say bye be a good time as in the way i said? like when weve hugged and she breaks or me breaks away i keep my arms around her or on her hips and try n kiss her ? would that work?

You are over-thinking this.

By the way, ignore Kieran. Obviously he/she wants to sabotage you.