Okay so when me and girlfriend do anything sexual im always pretty darn hard and even sometimes by thinking of her. We havent had sex yet but alot of foreplay and dry sex and stuff like that. Well, im wondering why is it when it actually comes to the point when she tries to wack me off i cant get hard. I mean i get really hard and aroused by anything else she does to me and its not like i cant get an erection before sex because i do (dry sex that is, were basically naked except shes got the panties on). So i was wondering what the deal is with me? Out of the few times we tried the handjob, we have been succesful only once. Whats with me?