jealous

[heartless]

so i've been together with my gf for about 5 months now...(a week left)...and i feel that i love her mjore then anything...and i could sacrifice everything for her...but it feels that she can't do the same for me.....it's this that she likes to hang with other guys....she says she has more fun with them,,, and i've told her that if she's gonna hang with other guys thens i don't wanna know but she keeps telling me all the time anyway....i just can't stand her beeing with other guys....even if they are only friends....cuz u never know what happens.....as i said ..i've told her i don't wanna hear when she's witha male friend but she keeps telling me...and that reaaly gets me jealous and really down...what should i do?? or tell heR??

[daisy]

May be you need to meet with her friends and if they are real friends of her they'll be glad to meet you and spend the time with you both...

[heartless]

that was i kinda good idea but she maby will only let me meet one of her friends beacuse the others are mostly her exes and she thinks i'm gonna beat them up....

[Tone]

You got issues bro...

You love this girl so much and you're so blah about her.. how come your screen name is "heartless" and your caption is "hopeless,heartbroken:(" ?? And what's up with the freaky clown/skeleton!?

You joined last month, but you've been datin her for 5 months... I hate to be the one to say it but from the way you describe things - I think it's best to start preparing yourself for the unthinkable... the relationship not lasting very long.. *gasp*

Especially if you are this jealous.. it's only going to push her away.

[Rosebud]

Uh yea......first you just mention that they are friends and now you bring up that most of them are her ex's.... Yep, time to move on. She's obviously in love with getting attention from everyone. I imagine you both are pretty young!

Basically, you need to realize she isn't that into you or she wouldn't be doing that, and two you need to get a set and stand up to her!

[Tone]

Yeah what's the big deal anyways?

I flirt with my guy friends, doesn't mean I want to sleep with them, right Lloyd?

[Lloyd95]

Not going there....

[shh!]

How old are you both?

Generally, I think that it is normal for high school kids to experience insecurity about guys hanging with their girlfriends. However, as you age, you will learn that you can experience uncomfortable feelings and NOT act upon them.

It's all a matter of trust. Is she trustworthy? If not, then you don't have much of a relationship, and probably not much of a future, and no matter how much you cling to her, you won't be able to hold on to her.

Besides, assuming you ARE a highschool kid, you are pretty much doomed anyway, just by virtue of your age. Sorry.

[Converse]

You got issues bro...

You love this girl so much and you're so blah about her.. how come your screen name is "heartless" and your caption is "hopeless,heartbroken" ?? And what's up with the freaky clown/skeleton!?You joined last month, but you've been datin her for 5 months... I hate to be the one to say it but from the way you describe things - I think it's best to start preparing yourself for the unthinkable... the relationship not lasting very long.. *gasp*

Especially if you are this jealous.. it's only going to push her away.

Haha, that made me laugh and I dunno why!

[xwfuro]

sounds to me like you dont trust her much,,, you should really ask to meet her friends and see if you could chill with all of them, that will eliminate a lot of that doubt.