Alrite, I liked this guy back by halloween and we started talking and stuff. Then we started seeing eachother. We spend a lot of time together, then we stopped talking right around the begging of december or end of november. About 2-3 weeks after we stopped talking I found out that he went to jail(dont judge-i don't really wanna hear it). He sent me a letter from jail, just talking about basically what he does in a day and apoligizing for not talking to me. He said that one of his ex's(they dated for like 4 years) called him and said she would take him back if he stopped seeing me and his feeling for her just came back and that he was sorry, and that he hopes we can stay friends. I respected this a lot so, I was alrite with being friends. Then he called me the day after he got out just to tell me he was alright and what happened we talked for about 2-3 hours.
A week later he calls me and apoligizes for way back when. I was super sick so he wanted to bring me soup medicine and cough drops. I didnt want him to but he gave me no choice. 30 minutes later he showed up with all that stuff and we started seeing eachother again. We spent....Almost... Every day together, and the days that we didnt he was at night school. Then suddenly he stopped calling me and he wasnt answering my calls. He called me on a friday and was like sorry, I moved out of my house because me and my parents got in a huge fight I didnt mean for it to seem like I was ignoring you, because im not. I got my phone shut off but now its back on, its through my mom so she has the power over it. Im having troubles right now and I dont really know where im going to stay or anything, I still have feelings for you. And i'll call you again I promise. I believed him because him and his dad dont really have a good relationship. This was 11 days ago, and I havent heard from him.
I've tried to call him but he didnt answer. Im not sure if he got his phone shut off or hes ignoring me. But I like him a lot, and hes all I ever think about. I just cry sometimes because I want to be with him and I want to know hes alright. I've never been in love, I dont even know what love feels like, but this is the closest ive prolly ever felt to it.
Please please please....
I need some advice
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15-03-06, 05:21 AM #1
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What do i do now?
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15-03-06, 05:25 AM #2
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How can we advise you? You didn't tell us what he was in jail for.
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15-03-06, 05:25 AM #3
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well.. it sounds like his life is really in disarray right now so you should probably not wait for him to be honest. your gonna tear yourself apart over a potential phonecall which may never come. Sounds to me like he is making a lot of excuses too.
best advice i can give is get over this guy and dont stress it because he obviously has no time for a working relationship this time in his life.
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15-03-06, 05:26 AM #4
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I agree with this.
Originally Posted by xwfuro
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15-03-06, 05:27 AM #5
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Had. Originally Posted by Tone
they dated for almost 4 years and broke up a year and a half ago
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15-03-06, 05:28 AM #6
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Yet he's willing to stop talking to you when she asks him to.
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15-03-06, 05:28 AM #7
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Its hard to just get over a guy instantly. Originally Posted by xwfuro
I dont work like that.
I dont even know why im so hooked on him
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15-03-06, 05:28 AM #8
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It's because you can't have him, that's why.
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15-03-06, 05:30 AM #9
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What was he in jail for??
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15-03-06, 05:32 AM #10
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He used to be into drugs and stuff real bad and then he got in a car accident while drinking and driving Originally Posted by shh!
I know, doesnt make him sound any more appealing
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And think about it..... he stopped talking to you before over this other girl... how do you know he's not dating her again and dropped you like a hot potatoe? You don't.... so move on and find someone else who will treat you with respect and let you into their life. This guy has been using you and you know it!
If you can't handle the thorns, don't crave the rose!!
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People with drug and alcohol issues are also known to be chronic liars. It is a common part of the lifestyle.
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15-03-06, 06:00 AM #13
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I know.......... Originally Posted by shh!
i just cant stop thinking about him.
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I can understand that; he sounds like a real winner. If it were me; I'd stick it out. Who knows; he could turn around and you two could live happily ever after. Best of luck! Originally Posted by hah-cha-cha88
"Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, when you're perfect in every way. I can't wait to look in the mirror, cause I get better loking each day. To know me is to love me, I must be a hell of a man. Oh Lord it's hard to be humble, but I'm doing the best that I can." Mac Davis
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15-03-06, 06:04 AM #15
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are you being sarcastic? Originally Posted by TAVS
