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    Im in love with my best friend

    last year my mum met this girl in my classes mum and then we started going over to her house. After a while we became best friends.Then over time i have fallen for her but last night my sister told me that her mum said i was the only guy she has ever trusted because of her dad.

    I am worried that if i ask her out it will affect our relationship and i am also worried that she willl never trust another guy again

    should i tell her that i have feelings for her or should i wait a couple of years or should i not tell her at all

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    You may ask her Mum first will she let you to take her daughter out, like go to mall and watching movie at weekend, don't be affraid be gentleman buddy, and tell her mum you will go back home before 10 pm. Then if you allowed in the next day after you get permision from her mum you ask the girl to goin out with you to watch some good movie or restaurant, why you should be affraid if you telling the the truth and you're really like her , just going out with her like a friend first, and she will give a sign when she really likes you then you respond with warm smile, start good humor and hold your attitude, be yourself , ok buddy good luck, don't affraid to anything else than God.
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    Unless Hitler is God I don't see why there's any reason to fear him.

    Anyway, to binary, this stuff is always tricky, 'cause if you gain too much trust, she won't want to lose you as a friend. But if you can't handle bein' friends without goin' a step further, then you just need to drop her all together.

    That's what I say.

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    I think if you're the only guy she's ever been able to trust, you're pretty special to her. You should let her know how you feel, but go slow. That trust is obviously pretty delicate. She's lucky you're being so careful about her feelings.


    BTW, Jaxcie, your dating site advertisement is going to piss a lot of people off. Starting with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch

    BTW, Jaxcie, your dating site advertisement is going to piss a lot of people off. Starting with me.

    And, coupled with her very broken English, is definitely pissing me off.

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    You're about to all see why I chose Gigabitch as my screen handle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gigabitch
    You're about to all see why I chose Gigabitch as my screen handle.
    I've been wondering about that!
    Relax... I'll need some information first. Just the basic facts - can you show me where it hurts?

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    Quote Originally Posted by vashti
    I've been wondering about that!
    Prostelytizing + advertising + bad grammar/ spelling = Unleash the Evil

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    I once got with my best female friend we had known each other since i can remember!!

    It ended in disaster now we don't talk and to be honest i wish i never got with her!!

    Think of the consequences but if you do go for it good look

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