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[vashti]

i apologise for not agreeing with the above comment.

May not be the "best" way, but it is certainly the fastest.

[Broken-dreamer]

Well thank you to who has helped me <3

But I want to ask one more thing.
Does anyone think I'll ever have a chance with him...?
Even though I didnt really give off much infomation about myself and ' him ', but If you would like to know more, then I guess I could tell you...

[pinkpuca84]

go ahead if what she wants is the fast solution. but what is her chance of getting a good and "right" guy in such a fast time? i seriously doubt abt this.

i've been there. i was one of the kind who wanted fast and easy solution. did that make me happy? for a while it did. but not when i finally found out that i was going out with the wrong guys. so who is to blame now? ME ! all my friends now are telling me that i shouldnt have gone out with them so fast, i should've waited to find out whether or not i trully love them, and should've found out who they really are before going out with them. so tell me...can i actually do all these things in such a short time? no, right? it takes a long time, and if u're in rush, u tend to make a wrong decision, just like what i did.

it makes the whole situation so much worst that it already was. thats why this time, i understand that this is not the way to do it. u just have to learn to deal with it, instead of finding the first next guy to make urself feel better.

no offense to ur advice tho...i just give my opinion based on my own experience.

[pinkpuca84]

Broken,
i dont want to disapoint u. but really...u shouldnt hold much hopes, if he thinks he still likes u, he will show it...my guy friends told me this.
i dont know ur reason tho...maybe u should tell us

[Broken-dreamer]

My reason to keep loving him, is that what you mean?

[pinkpuca84]

no...the reason why u think u have chance of getting back with him

[Broken-dreamer]

to be honest, I dont think I have any reason...
Im not sure if I ever will have a chance with him or not...

Its just the way I am, never think of the future, but think about how I feel about him now. At times, really rare when we do chat, he would say some sweet things that would really cheer me up but at the same time, crush me. Actually, I never start any conversations with him, and whenever he starts a convo with me, I feel really happy. Him just saying hello makes me smile...but it also reminds me that he's just bored and wants some one to talk to. And Im fine with that, Im actually kind of happy with that too..

I dont know what to say really...

[pinkpuca84]

i was exactly on the same boat. really...every single thing u said, happened to me too. but sooner or later u just have to make decision to leave. u broke up for a reason. and he doesnt seem to make any effort to be getting back with u. u feel like every single "move" that he makes is such a big deal. if he does nice things to u, then u feel it's so special...where in fact it is not. accept the fact, and forget this whole thing. and remember u're not alone

i also suggest u should have male friends. ask them what they think. cos i found out that when i share things with them, i got different perspective, and they can be very objective, and tell u the truth, because they are guys too, i guess they know what their "species" are like.

[loss]

hmm are you depressed about relation ship will this scar you for life? i think it will actuly...(sorry if i sound mean but what ever i think comes out) hmm getting over someo ne you love hard well just remember this keep living on and sme one special will come into your life and make you happy =)

Find some one that loves you more than loves them self and every thing else than you will fill up that gap( suggestion)

[Broken-dreamer]

Loss:
Hey, maybe your right..should I just keep living and try to ignore the fact that I still have strong feelings for him and wait til I meet someone who I will love? I dont know if I can, but I will try...If I fall inlove with another guy and figure that he's the right person, then yeah....maybe I'll give it a try =/

Maybe it is best that I leave it as it is and not do anything about it cause I come to the conclusion where I can hurt myself even more...I dont want to feel anymore awkward towards him anymore...

Im currently speechless now, so yeah.